Basic Fucking Kindness

posts will resume now for at least another two weeks uninterrupted. the tagging will most probably still be deficient, and if anyone has suggestions for better tagging, they will be appreciated

polyamory, socialization "polyamory. is. not. just. about. sex."

lgbt, society "the vast majority of straight people knew they were straight while they were still kids"

socialization, mental health "do not punish the behaviour you want to see"

consent, children, socialization "teach kids about consent for life, not just for sex"

adhd, medication, socialization "real talk just because i have adhd doesn't mean that my feelings are not valid"

self compassion, productivity, guilt "listen up you can relax you dont need to be productive every moment"

chronic illness, self compassion "internalized ableism bingo"

autism, neurodivergency "what people think the autism spectrum looks like:"

body, self compassion "go outside, look at the moon. the moons so pretty isn't it"

self compassion, mental health, trauma "no one talks about how being happy and having things go your way is scary"

self compassion "be imperfectly vegan"

socialization "quick note: your brutal honesty? ain't nobody asking for that"

tolerance, socialization "conservatives will be like: why are you holding me accountable for my bigoted beliefs? whatever happened to tolerance???"

[no caption] "what if something goes wrong?"

art "fuck it, be creative even if you never really make anything"

mental health, socialization "you- you wouldn't really want to date me"

mental health, socialization "once my boyfriend told me: you're not a burden"

lgbt, socialization "trying out sex is not how you confirm or deny your asexuality"