The illusionary Ephemeral to The Flow

The Crim Son Kiss - I'm not confused anymore. Certain words don't soothe me, anymore. I've "changed" for other people in the past, and all it was, was me suppressing all of these parts of myself, just to please someone else. The real me wasn't gone just hidden. And lemme tell you... I was miserable. And those layers that I forced onto myself, eventually, began to crumbled... and it wasn't pretty. I became resentful towards the people I changed for, whenever things got rocky: "I changed everything about myself to make you happy, and this is the shit you're doing?" - words I found myself yelling, often. So now that I've had those experiences, and learned from them, I don't think it's cute to hear anyone tell me that they want to change FOR me. Nah.. don't do that for me. Change is definitely something that someone else can inspire you to do, but at the end of the day... change is extremely personal. It's intimate. It's work. It's dedication. And it's only healthy, if it's something that you want for YOURSELF.