self-reflection 🕊

majlis maulidur rasul @ assyakirin, 20/09/25

assalamualeykum, good morning everyone! have a blessed and wonderful day today! 🌅

You are not your mistakes. You are a soul still trying. There are things you wish you could erase. Moments that still echo with guilt. But Allah is not looking at who you were, He’s looking at who you are becoming. Every sincere regret is a seed of change. You’re not too stained to return. You're not too far to be forgiven. “The one who repents from sin is like one who did not sin.” (Ibn Majah)

make this friday, a beneficial one. ❤️

Friday Sunnah Reminders 🤍📿 We all know how special Jumaah (Friday) is in our Deen but we need reminders from time to time to recall the magnanimity of this golden day. Friday is no average day for Muslims. It has the honor of being called ‘best day of the week’ by the best person to ever exist- Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. 1. Send extra selawat to Rasulullah Rasulullah ﷺ said : “The person closest to me on the Day of Resurrection is the one who sent the most Selawat upon me.” 🖤 [ Sunan Al-Tirmidhi 484 ] 2. Read Surah Al-Kahfi We can read: A. The first 10 Ayahs of Surah Al-Kahf B. The last 10 Ayahs of Surah Al-Kahf C. Both A and B D. Ideally, the complete Surah Al-Kahf. The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever reads Surah Al-Kahf on Friday, he will be illuminated with light between the two Fridays.” [ Narrated by al-Haakim; Grade Sahih by al-Albaani ] 3. Mandi Jumaat [ Jumaah Shower ] Abu Sa’id Al-Khudr reports: I testify that Allah’s Messenger said, ‘The taking of a bath on Friday is compulsory for every Muslim who has attained the age of puberty and also cleaning of teeth with Siwak and using perfume, if available’. [ Sahih Bukhari ] 4. Use Fragance & New Piece of Clothings. “Put on your adornment on every occasion of prayer” [ Surat al-A’raf 7: 31 ] 5. Berdoa to Allah [ Send supplications to Allah ] 6. Trimming your nails Abu Hurayrah R.A. reported that ‘Five are the demonstrations of fitrah (nature/ instinct): 1. circumcision, 2. evacuating the hair underneath the navel, 3. trimming the mustache, 4. trimming the nails, and 5. culling the hair under the arms.’ 7. Make lots of Dua between Asr & Maghrib “There is a special hour on Friday, during which all prayers are accepted and answered by Allah, all Glory and Praise be to Him. This is part of the blessings that Allah has blessed this day with, over all the other days of the week. “On this day there is a time when no Muslim stands and prays, asking Allah for something, but Allah will grant him it” – and he gestured with his hands to indicate how short that time is. [ Bukhari and Muslim ] Ibn Al-Qayyim said that this golden hour is to be found in the time after the Asr prayer until the Maghrib Azan (end of day): “Friday has twelve hours (or part of it). There is one hour during which if a Muslim asks Allah anything, Allah will give it to him, so find it during the last hour after Asr.” [ Abu Dawud & An-Nasai ] Let’s do the virtues of Friday together! insha allah, if you can’t do everything, it’s okayy, don’t leave everything out okay. may Allah ease your affairs. 🕊 MD. @selfreflectionforummah

It could be right at the palm of your hands, yet still not written for you. Because what is not yours will never stay, and what Allah has written will never miss you. Trust in Him, let go of what is not yours, and leave everything in the hands of Allah, for He knows what is best, better than you could ever imagine ✨🌷

💐 There is khayr in the delay . The wait will be all worth it . May Allah swt grant you even better than what you yearn for

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSDDgU62s ••• may all of us be blessed with happy family & spouses, that will bring us closer to Allah. allahumma amin.

“Your Rizq is written and no one can take what’s meant for you.” Money feels tight. Opportunities feel far. But Rizq isn’t just cash, it’s health, peace and unexpected ease. Keep working. Keep giving. Allah provides in ways beyond logic.

reminder : 💖 i don’t know what you’re going through, but this is a reminder that tough days don’t last forever. whatever it is, you’re stronger than you think, and brighter days are on their way. hang in there and be kind to yourself. you’ve got this ! 💖

🔵 what Allah chooses you is always good for you. Even if it’s what we wanted. Every choice He makes is right. Even if we don’t understand the reason behind it.

You can begin again. Even from the mess. You’ve slipped. Lost yourself. Maybe you’re disappointing others. But Allah isn’t waiting for you to be perfect. He’s waiting for you to turn back. A fresh start begins with one honest step: “Ya Allah, guide me.” “Surely Allah loves those who always turn to Him in repentance and those who purify themselves.” (Qur’an 2:222)

A gentle reminder to always choose ikhlas over recognition✨ True change is most beautiful when it is done sincerely not for fame, attention, or the approval of others. It’s easy to get caught up in wanting recognition, but the real reward lies in actions done solely for Allah. Ask yourself, If no one notices, would I still do it? That is where ikhlas lives in the silent deeds, the secret prayers, the small acts done purely for Him. Yes, it’s natural to desire praise, but letting go of that is where sincerity truly begins. May Allah purify our intentions, for what truly matters is not the world's applause, but the acceptance that rests only in Allah's sight 🌷

📝 alhamdulillah ‘ala kulli haal, i am blessed to be able to have the opportunity to be in this event, today. organised by International Students of Islamic Psychology & Counsel SG! a little shoutout to Counsel SG, do follow them on instagram!

majlis maulidur rasul @ mydin, 14/09/25

Before you end the night, remind yourself that your heart matters. Loving yourself is part of loving Allah’s gift to you. Be gentle with yourself. Ask yourself, did I speak kindly to myself today? or was I too hard on myself? Remember, putting your heart first is not selfish. A heart that is cared for can love Allah and others more sincerely. Let go of what hurt you today, forgive yourself for what you couldn’t do, and thank Allah for carrying you through. You are more than just enough. Remember that ✨🌷

majlis maulidur rasul @ al khair, 13/09/25

Love doesn't end just because life does. You miss them. Sometimes in quiet moments, sometimes all at once. And it's okay. Because love for someone doesn’t vanish after loss. What you can no longer give them in this world, give as a du’a. That’s the gift that reaches beyond the grave. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "When a man dies, his deeds come to an end except for three things: Amal Jariyah, a knowledge which is beneficial, or a virtuous descendant who prays for him (for the deceased)." (Muslim)