$incerely, Her

and honestly it’s not talked about enough how much experiencing SA can affect someone’s personality and sense of self and make them feel ashamed even when they KNOW it wasn’t their fault. the feeling of being completely helpless and powerless can be so fucking awful specially when someone takes advantage of you whether physically or emotionally

نمیدونم چجوری توضیح بدم ولی حتی اگر کمی فهم داشته باشید میفهمید فرقی نمیکنه یه بچه باشید یا بزرگسال در چنین شرایط هایی وقتی واقعا متوجه نمیشی چخبره اولش فقط انکار میکنی و به قول ایشون توی شرایطی که بود فکر میکنی عادیه یا فکر میکنی یجوری میتونی خودتو نجات بدی و وقتی اتفاق افتاده دیگه دیر شده و بعدش به هزار دلیل بازم نمیتونی باهاش کنار بیای چه بخاطر خانواده چه بخاطر شخصیتت و etc

I’ve never experienced anything like this myself but I can’t even imagine how confusing and overwhelming it must be in that moment and when you never really get to process something like that, you can bury it so deep that eventually you can’t even properly face it yourself or even remember it but somehow live it all over again. And talking about something this personal THAT publicly has to be even harder when you already know people are gonna be assholes about it because half the time it’s not even just “oh it must’ve been because of what you were wearing” ppl will literally grab onto ANYTHING they can find just to somehow make it the victim’s fault and i don’t know why

People start judging the second they assume a CHILD who got thrown into a situation like that whether they were prepared for it or not is somehow supposed to know exactly what to do. Like hell even ADULTS don’t always know what to do in situations like that😭

:(

This was so heartbreaking to watch…

وای من چرا

الان هنذفری سیمی واقعا یه چیز قدیمیه؟!

هندزفیری سیمی

دلم ایفون قدیمی میخواد

شب بخیر

and i don’t mean it in a fun way