Basic Fucking Kindness
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sustainability, society, climate
"every time i see something marketed as an eco-friendly replacement for something that you could simply not replace, i can feel my face melting off.
[...]
remember the three R's?
first, Reduce consumption.
next, Reuse something that's already been made
last, Recycle an unusable item if you can
the order matters"
self compassion, healing, growth, society
"can we weaponize comfort already?"
transcription:
"user: teaboot
Some rando: You should think about stopping
your prescription
Me: My pills make me not want to die tho
They: You shouldn't want to die, that's not
normal
Me: Yeah that's why I'm taking my pills
Again: But you aren't the *real* you when you're
on your pills
Me: I'm the alive version of me
An actual doctor, once: "Relying On A
Chemical Crutch For A Hormonal Imbalance
Denies The Fortitude Of The Human Soul"
Me: Cool so like I'm agnostic
user: inner-muse
They: "But you might be on pills the rest of
your life!"
Me: "So?"
user: illnessisnteasy
Good! That means that I have a "rest of" my life
to continue living!
Thanks to the pills.
user: erinptah
Meanwhile, no person ever: "You should think
about giving up your insulin/antiretrovirals/beta
blockers/anti-rejection drugs/prosthetic legs/
daily multivitamin, because using those your
whole life is bad for some reason"
user: teaboot
Oh no, they do that too.
user: we-are-not-ok
I have a kidney transplant. A woman once told
me she didn't believe in organ transplants and
that people should just die when they're meant
user: teaboot
Sounds like a great set-up for a murder
People who are fully healthy, fit and
neurotypical seem to think they are that way
because they're doing something right that the
rest of us haven't thought of, and not just
because they got lucky"
medication, chronic illness, mental health
[full transcription in separate message because of its lenght]
activism
"recording or taking photo's at a protest can be unwise
be mindful of what you share, do not unwittingly aid state surveillance. discretion is solidarity"
parenting, lgbt, discrimination, minorities, socialization
"ok but if letting your kid use a different name & different words & wear different clothing is scientifically likely to improve their health & happiness and lower their risk of suicide, whether or not they change their mind later... does it really matter whether you personally "get it"? does it even matter if you're comfortable with it?
[...]
its not your kid's job to be the child you wanted. its your job to make choices that allow them to be the happiest version of themselves
[...]
even if your kids arent trans it is still super shitty to grow up suspecting that your parent's love is conditional
[...]
no matter how your kid identifies, making unsupportive comments about queer people sends the message "if you were like this, i would love you less""
society, self compassion
"you have not failed if you cant always seem to "function" in a dysfunctional environment/society"
socialization, growth
"grow as you please, if i have to get to know you again, i'll do that"
feminism
"cant stop thinking about how women are ridiculed for enjoying romance novels and movies (where actual good things happen to women) and are told that they should enjoy other genres (where women are often not mentioned or killed to serve as a plot device for the male lead)"
parenting
"hot take, but if you see your baby struggle through five hours of homework and then you get pissy because they drag their feet about doing chores? you need to reevaluate
[...]
maybe children get tired and frustrated too"
socialization, invisible problems, anxiety
"as an introvert, the best thing is finding someone who it isnt draining to spend time with
[...]
all socializing is not equal"
body, chronic illness, mental health, rest
"if you dont pick a day to relax your body will pick it for you"
mental health, invisible problems
"lets talk about bipolar"
the hard to read text parts, in order:
god complex
decreased sleep
racing thoughts
attention span of an oyster (squirrel?)
agitation
risky behaviors
delusion
hallucinations
psychosis
[note: hallucinations per se dont imply psychosis]
elevated mood
irritability
increased energy
weight loss or gain
insomnia or hypersomnia
slower movements
feelings of worthlessness
inability to [?] and make decisions
ideations of death
art
"one of the best tips for writing descriptions of pain is actually a snippet i remember from a story where a character is given a host of colored pencils and asked to draw an egg"
