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Got it already. Was an eye opener and loved the unique strategies. Thanks for writing it.
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Last 2 hours
This is your chance to stop feeling inadequate
Go get it. The price will forever increase as I keep adding more stuff
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Reminder: The discount code goes down in a few hours
If you want to stop your mental masturbation and become a dedicated action taker, this is for you
On Friday the price will be raised to $20. Right now, you can grab it for $5. You'll never get it for the same price ever again.
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Wanna know why most self help advice sucks?
Because it's all focused on emotions
Either they're trying to make you feel good (productivity advice)
Or they're trying to make you believe you're emotionally weak (things like forgiveness and trauma)
I have talked a lot about "feel" good advice. And you already know what I am talking about.
So, let's focus on the other part.
Now, this is where self-help industry can mess you up
It's the same thing normies do. Normies make you believe it's okay to not have control over emotions. How? Check out this post for an example: https://t.me/basedzone/572
But the self-help industry does it differently
They make you focus on it. They make you feel like a victim, while saying that you're not a victim.
For instance: Forgive everyone, let go off the mental load. Heal your trauma (with some stupid affirmation or aligning your chakras)
Their advice sounds so obvious and right. But it fucking isn't.
Why do you want to forgive? Why not just repair the mistake?
Sounds stupid, but it makes a huge fucking difference. It's a shift in focus.
Because most of self-help advice is mental masturbation. It takes you away from action. And believe it or not, action is the greatest cure to your mental problems.
Look, I am not saying affirmations, perspectives, meditation, etc., doesn't help. They help tremendously.
But you have to be aware. You have to catch your own bullshit. You should know when you're simply mental masturbating.
You don't always need to spend so much time with your thoughts and emotions. Sometimes, they're here just to distract you. Ignore them. Let them go away. Focus on your work.
STAY BASED
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Repost from Basedonia™ - By E-go
You cannot afford to get emotional about other people's decisions.
I've said in the past:
Do not chase people.
If someone walks away from you, let them be.
If they believe they're better off without you, let them go.
Do not hold people back.
If they stay around you against their will, your relationship will turn toxic and unhealthy.
Respect people's choices and boundaries no matter how unreasonable or straight out stupid they might seem.
Your friends are not your kids.
You have no responsibility over them.
This also applies to friends that are stubborn and don't want to listen to your advice.
DO NOT INSIST.
Let them make their own mistakes.
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ANNOUNCEMENT!
In about 48 hours, I’ll be launching my guide RE-WIRE
But before, I thought I should give you all a gift
A 50% discount for the next 48 hours
Look, I will not throw a sales pitch at you
You have been a part of my inner circle for the past many weeks, if not months
If you’re still here, you know I never compromise on value
All I’ll say is…
If you’re tired of:
-Not being able to build discipline
-Regularly skipping your workouts
-Constantly living under the stress of un-finished work
-Losing self trust
-Letting your emotions get the better of you
Then this guide is for you
If you’re not serious about changing your life, then avoid buying it
Alright, that will be all
Remember, discount stays active only for the next 48 hours
Click the link below and grab your copy now:
https://re-wire.carrd.co/
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Will be going slightly off topic for this post:
When it comes to money, never rely on something you don't have
I'll have been guaranteed a job in 3 months, let's relax now.
They'll send the money in a month, let's buy something now on credit
Look, nothing is guaranteed
You may never get the job. You may never get the money.
Always rely on what you have now. And what you can do now.
Same goes for everything in life
Never be focused on what you don't have
We all have limitations
Be focused on what you have and what you can do NOW
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As promised, here's the list of best Based Zone posts (constantly updated):
https://www.notion.so/Best-Of-Based-Zone-Constantly-Updated-940fd00775ba408985bb873f080ae71a
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This is so true!! Since childhood, we have been taught and tried to seek validation that we forgot to love ourselves and improve ourselves. Last few posts have been 🔥
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Gonna continue with Telegram
But in the near future I have plans for this account (in order to help you all), which will require emails
So I'll be starting a newsletter soon. But the same content will be posted here as well.
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Have answered all the questions so far as a part of the posts I send. If your question didn't get answered, read all the posts sent since that day consciously. You'll get your answer.
If you ever have any question, you can let me know.
