Confessions

Hi Admin. Please keep me anonymous. My uncles went to my woman's place for lobola negotiations and payment. My woman engaged her family on the amount we agreed on, so my family knew beforehand that we'd be charged R50 000. They went there armed with R55 000. The negotiations went well and my uncles paid what was charged by the other family on the spot. They agreed that makoti would be officially handed over the following weekend. Two days later she complained about pain in the stomach. She sadly passed on the following day. Would it be insensitive of me to ask for the lobola refund?