Date Tips™💡

Mind the pin A mother rocking a crying baby is unlikely to realize that he is not screaming for his own pleasure, but because of a pin in his blanket, which pricks and makes him uneasy. And, until the woman finds it, the baby's anxiety will grow. If you, as well, find your "pin," you will become more aware of what is going on. Stop worrying about someone else's inappropriate behavior toward you. You will no longer see yourself as a victim of circumstance if you see that the main source of stress is just the pin.

Shift your attention to something pleasant Catch a depressing thought, step away from it, and quickly switch to something positive. Say, for example, if you had a meeting with ten clients, and four of them didn't even smile at you, focus on the six do-gooders. Then you will have a pleasant memory of the event, and about a sullen four you will forget immediately. Every time another negative thought creeps up on you, know that you are at a fork and it is in your power to choose a different path.

Psychological Aikido Destroy any asshole morally😏 Equanimity, dignity and a sense of humor are the qualities you will demonstrate using this method👌🏻 Why try to respond at least something in anger and still look pathetic when you can easily guffaw at any rebuke from others and remain the audience's favorite? Example: - Why are you standing in line?! - Well, yes, everyone is standing, and I'm the smartest one here, and you're so attentive, you noticed it right away! Or something like that! ✅ On the one hand self-irony, but on the other hand it emphasizes the excessive negativity of your interlocutor, he will quickly shut up. This way you won't get on your nerves, and you'll look at the situation with humor, as a grown-up and wise man should!

You are incomparable and inimitable Get it into your head! Many of your problems will evaporate if you just turn off your inner critic! Comparisons let demotivation into your world and a willingness to give up in any endeavor! Do you need that? I don't think so. Does your inner dialogue or inner narrative compare your every move with the actions of others? 👉🏻If the answer is yes, self-discipline will have a huge impact from this, paralyzing you because of delusion. ✅The only thing that should matter to you as a leader of your life is your way of thinking, whether it's positive or negative. Scientists have proven: low self-discipline is a negative dialogue with yourself, and a negative conversation with yourself discourages great things🥀 What to do. Train yourself to positive inner self-reflection, such as: "I can do this" or "I'm going to start this 5-minute task right now." That way you'll move 100% from your point of view, just stop berating yourself, because you're the big winner in your life🏆

Win people over Remember that everyone is selfish in his or her own way, and from that it's too simple to take an interest in them✨ ❌Talk about yourself and your accomplishments ✅ Asking questions and being interested in your communication partner's opinion. And my personal trick is to memorize some little thing: a situation or a problem, and the next time you meet, be sure to ask how it went or how it was resolved. Here’s the surest way to anyone's heart! I assure you: there is not a single person who does not like to tell about himself🙃

Emotion or Mind? Further discussing the theme of developing mindfulness and for me it is a trait that is directly responsible for the evolving of a person and their thinking! And new thinking = new life, right? So, getting to the point, my friend, if an unpleasant situation has made you angry, anxious or sad, you can always CONTROL your behavior. Strong people have an emotional flexibility that keeps their minds from drowning in negative crap. 🚫 The biggest mistake is to force yourself to think positively. Forcing is extremely touch, if not impossible. So you will often catch yourself in the negative, blame yourself for it and lose motivation. So it is best to accept your anger or irritation and try to understand where it came from and whether this emotion is good for you! Listen to yourself and you will already start to change🏆

Solve problems with the girl through the bed Surely, a picture immediately flashes up: in a fit of passion after a long quarrel, you tear each other's clothes off and all the problems recede into the background🔥 And at the end everyone is happy and the problem evaporates on its own. I thought for a long time that this was the perfect way to erase any conflict, yep, as if it wasn't! Yeah, sure it is, my friend. This problem is already lodged in her head, from where it will break out at the first opportunity. So what's the solution? Rethink the complexity of the phrase "we need to talk," as you can't get away from those hard conversations, but you can't build a relationship without them. 🚫 Turning problems into jokes or sex is great, but these problems will accumulate and eventually a huge clump of problems will fall on your couple.

For champions to recharge If you're halfway through the day and you're already dreaming of going to bed like a lemon, but you obviously can't get it yet and your bosses want you to be productive, then there's my favorite method👌🏻 Since I don't like to bother, and some time-consuming smart tricks are not very invigorating at the moment of lethargy, so my advice is the following - have a cup of tea🌱 What will it do? It will help you catch your breath and cheer up quickly. And a piece of dark chocolate will help you get a burst of energy, not only for your body, but also for your mind. And tea and chocolate are an explosive couple and I'm not talking about gastronomic pleasure😏

The secret to a healthy relationship No matter how stunning and interesting your girlfriend is, remember to be self-sufficient! ✅ Note: the most advantageous approach to a healthy relationship is realizing that you are responsible for your own happiness. Typically, there are couples with the partner literally dissolving in their beloved. And this brings negativity to both of them, because the person gives up his or her hobbies, friends, etc. Relationships are just a part of your life! And it's important to stop at an approach where you bring joy from other areas into the relationship, not the other way around! That's the only way your relationship will always be warm and strong! As a bonus, as you constantly evolve, you'll start to enjoy yourself, and your loved one as well 🙃

Should you carry her bag? Courtship is courtship, but there are times when you have to back off💁🏻‍♀️ You can now feel free to cover yourself with etiquette if you're having trouble in certain instances! And now we're going to look at a special case - a small woman's purse! Or not insignificant...considering how much stuff is usually in there😮 Agree, a brutal and statuesque man looks very dumb with a woman's clutch. ❕Remember: a bag, a backpack, a suitcase is your battlefield, and a small woman's purse should not make her uncomfortable and be an addition to her some kind of super image. Instead of taking her purse, give her a sincere compliment. That'll get you more credit!