Winyourself

Some people become your future. Some become your memory. But the rarest ones become a part of who you are. ... 🌱👑🌱

🌿 1. Don't meddle in other people's lives. Everyone has their own path. Focus on your own life - it's more interesting. 2. Don't wait for approval from others. The most important thing is that you enjoy what you're doing. 3. Don't argue. Trying to prove something to someone is just a waste of energy. You know the truth, and that's enough. 4. Let go of grudges. Holding a grudge against someone is like carrying a heavy stone in your pocket. Throw it away and breathe freely. 5. Say goodbye to toxic people. Your peace of mind is more valuable than any relationship. Don't be afraid to close the door. 6. Value your time. Don't waste it on empty conversations or pointless tasks. Time can't be turned back. 7. Don't compare yourself to anyone. You are who you are. You have your own pace and your own path. And it's wonderful. 8. Take care of yourself. Loving and caring for yourself is normal. It's not selfishness, it's a basic necessity.

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Love V Understanding

May the celebration of Radha Ashtami bring joy 😊, harmony ♋️, and spiritual🧘‍♀️growth into your life. Wishing you a Radha Ashtami filled with love ❤, devotion 🙏, and the purest of blessings 🙌 from Radha Rani. May the divine grace of Radha and Krishna always be with you, guiding you towards love and light. Happy Radha Ashtami! ❣🌸 @wiinyourself

*Stop fighting lost battles* When life seems unfair, the mind naturally gravitates toward *what has gone wrong*. We keep replaying how others should have acted differently or how circumstances should have unfolded differently. While we must recognize our pain, we cannot let our attention become imprisoned by it. When reality clashes with our expectations, we often keep fighting the battle in our minds long after reality has already decided the outcome. But *emotional resistance cannot change what has already happened*; it only drains the energy we need to respond wisely. Acceptance does not mean approving of everything that has happened or giving up efforts to improve things. It means *ending our inner argument with what is*, so that we can turn our attention toward what can still be. Instead of exhausting ourselves by resenting what we cannot change, we must recognize *what remains fair*—the opportunities, abilities, choices, and support still available to us. *Unfairness should not make us bitter; it should make us better.* We must learn to distinguish the unchangeable from the changeable, accepting the first without resentment and addressing the second with resourcefulness. Rather than becoming resentful about what has been taken away, we can choose to become *resourceful with what remains*. When we finally stop wasting our strength wishing the present were different, we can use that same strength to help *make the future different*. Based on *Gita for Hard Times book*

हरलेली युद्धे लढणे थांबवा जेव्हा आयुष्य अन्यायकारक वाटू लागते, तेव्हा मन साहजिकच *जे चुकीचे घडले आहे* त्याकडेच खेचले जाते. इतरांनी कसे वेगळे वागायला हवे होते किंवा परिस्थिती कशी वेगळी असायला हवी होती, याच विचारांची आवर्तने आपण मनात वारंवार फिरवत राहतो. आपल्याला होणाऱ्या वेदनांची जाणीव ठेवणे आवश्यक असले, तरी आपण आपले लक्ष त्या वेदनांच्या अंधारकोठडीत कैद होऊ देऊ शकत नाही. जेव्हा वास्तव आणि आपल्या अपेक्षा एकमेकांशी भिडतात, तेव्हा वास्तव कधीचेच जिंकलेले असतानाही आपण आपल्या मनात ती लढाई विनाकारण लढत राहतो. पण लक्षात ठेवा, *भावनिक प्रतिकार कधीही घडून गेलेल्या गोष्टी बदलू शकत नाही*; तो फक्त आपल्याला सुज्ञपणे पाऊल उचलण्यासाठी लागणारी ऊर्जा शोषून घेतो. स्वीकार करणे म्हणजे जे घडले त्या प्रत्येक गोष्टीला मान्यता देणे किंवा परिस्थिती सुधारण्याचे प्रयत्न सोडून देणे नव्हे. तर, *जे आहे त्याशी चालू असलेला मनाचा आंतरिक वाद थांबवणे*, जेणेकरून आपले लक्ष *जे अजूनही घडू शकते* त्याकडे वळवता येईल. जे आपण बदलू शकत नाही, त्याबद्दल चीड बाळगून स्वतःला थकवण्याऐवजी, *अजूनही काय चांगले उरले आहे* हे आपण पाहिले पाहिजे—जसे की आपल्यासमोरील संधी, आपल्या क्षमता, आपले पर्याय आणि आपल्याला मिळणारा पाठिंबा. *अन्यायाने आपल्याला कडू (Bitter) बनवू नये, तर अधिक उत्तम (Better) बनवले पाहिजे.* बदलता न येणाऱ्या गोष्टी आणि बदलता येणाऱ्या गोष्टी यांमधील फरक आपल्याला ओळखता आला पाहिजे; पहिल्या गोष्टीचा कोणताही आकस न ठेवता स्वीकार करणे आणि दुसऱ्या गोष्टीवर पूर्ण क्षमतेने मार्ग काढणे हेच खरे कौशल्य आहे. जे हिरावून घेतले गेले त्याबद्दल खंत व्यक्त करत बसण्यापेक्षा, *जे अजूनही हाताशी आहे त्याचा योग्य वापर करणे* आपण निवडू शकतो. जेव्हा आपण 'चालू वर्तमानकाळ' वेगळा असायला हवा होता, अशी व्यर्थ इच्छा करण्यात आपली ताकद वाया घालवणे थांबवू, नेमकी तीच ताकद आपल्याला *भविष्यकाळ अधिक उज्वल आणि वेगळा घडवण्यासाठी* कामी येईल. *(‘गीता फॉर हार्ड टाइम्स’ या पुस्तकावर आधारित)*

Abstract art It is a form of art that does not attempt to represent an accurate depiction of visual reality. Instead, it uses shapes, colors, forms, and gestural marks to achieve its effect.

💁🏻‍♀️ If you keep absorbing the consequences of how someone treats you, you'll stay the safest place for their worst behavior to keep showing up. That's usually because you love ❤️ deeply, forgive 😇 easily, and want to believe 😌 the best about people, even when their actions don't match it. But every time ⏱️ you soften the impact of something hurtful, explain it away, or let it slide to keep things comfortable, you're teaching that behavior it's welcome to return. 💁🏻‍♀️ Your mind 🧠 means well here. It's trying to preserve the relationship 👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏻, avoid conflict, keep the peace 😌. But consequences exist for a reason. They're how a mind 🧠 actually learns that a behavior costs something. Remove the cost, and there's no real reason for the behavior to change. You don't have to become harsh or unforgiving to fix 🛠️ this. Instead, you just have to let the natural result of someone's actions actually reach them instead of catching it for them every time. Loving 🤗 someone and protecting yourself from their worst behavior can happen at the same time. Let the consequence land. It might be the thing that finally teaches 🧑🏻‍🏫 what your words alone couldn't.

🆁🅸🆂🅸🅽🅶 🅰️🅱️🅾️🆅🅴 🅻🅸🅼🅸🆃🆂 🅰️🅽🅳 🅼🅴🅽🆃🅰️🅻 🅱️🅰️🆁🆁🅸🅴🆁🆂 (🅿️🅰️🆁🆃 3) When a mental limit has been set in our minds, the first thing one needs to do is look inwards and ⓒⓗⓔⓒⓚ it. The next step is to ░c░h░a░n░g░e░ it with the help of mental strength and spiritual power, without which the limit continues to dominate our personalities. This process is called – 𝐂𝐡𝐞𝐜𝐤 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 So, the weak personality characteristic in the form of a mental barrier which is influencing our thought patterns is first checked. It is then erased (removed) or transformed (changed) into a powerful nature characteristic which then is able to dominate the limit set and bring it down. Also, we need to stand back from the weak thought patterns, observe them and steer or change their direction from a negative frame of mind to a positive one. This is another method of working on winning or lifting the barrier. A person who is constantly thinking about failure needs to check that personality characteristic. Also, he needs to check the number of thoughts that he creates in one particular day which are focused on the possibility of failure in his life. He then needs to change them to affirmations or positive thoughts of success. These thoughts should be accompanied by visualizing the success repeatedly in a complete day with no room for the weak thoughts and images of possible failure to enter his mind. There are 3 types of people – the first type are neither able to check and as a result they are not able to change. The second type are sensitive enough to check but they do not have the power to transform or change the direction of the thought patterns. This is either due to lack of the power of determination or they are determined but lack the mental strength to do that. The third type can check and change both and overcome the limit and mental barrier with their mental strength. There are various methods of increasing mental strength. Some of them are – 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞, 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐣𝐨𝐲, 𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐬, 𝐩𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐭𝐡. Also, 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐞𝐝𝐠𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠. Another method is 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐮𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞 𝐁𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐫 𝐆𝐨𝐝. 🌿🤍

" 𝐋𝐢𝐟t 𝐎𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 "🌿

🆁🅸🆂🅸🅽🅶 🅰️🅱️🅾️🆅🅴 🅻🅸🅼🅸🆃🆂 🅰️🅽🅳 🅼🅴🅽🆃🅰️🅻 🅱️🅰️🆁🆁🅸🅴🆁🆂 (🅿️🅰️🆁🆃 2) 𝐀 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐭 𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐛𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐛𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐲𝐩𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐡. You know the story about the elephant whose one leg used to be tied using a small rope since the time he was young and he used to experience a lack of freedom in moving around wherever he wished. At that age, the small rope was enough to tie the elephant. As the elephant grew bigger, he possessed the physical strength to break the rope and wander around freely but instead of making use of his strength to break the rope, he did not do so. He remained confined to the same small region where he used to be tied because his mind was conditioned that he cannot break the rope, which is an example of a mental limitation. In a similar manner, the inner region of our mind is the place where we as children got used to being tied with the different types of ropes of a lack of optimism or positivity. E.g. 𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘳 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘰𝘳 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘢𝘴 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘰𝘯 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘢𝘯 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳-𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳. These ropes in many people are so strong that a time comes when situations of success have arrived in their life in different forms as they have grown up and they have achieved reasonably in different spheres of life. At that time they can easily break these different ropes, but they still remain low on optimism. This lack of optimism restricts their freedom to succeed and ability to achieve bigger and upto the potential they possess and as expected by their friends and people whom they are close to. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐡𝐲 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐝𝐝𝐞𝐧 𝐩𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐬 𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐜𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐚𝐤 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬. This weakness is caused by emotional limitations in the form of weak thoughts and feelings over the years. These thoughts and feelings have been expressed sometimes without us realizing how each thought and feeling is having a powerful negative effect on the situations around us. Also they keep coming back to us negatively in the long term. Limits are self-created and not imposed by society or circumstances on us as some of us might think and seem to experience from our life journey. We often say I feel I am weak because the following person has dominated me all my life. The dominating person is not the cause of our low self esteem. It’s what shape we have given to all his words and actions in our minds since we have been with him, is the cause of us seeing ourselves in a poor light and feeling under-confident. (To be continued tomorrow …) #IAM

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🆁🅸🆂🅸🅽🅶 🅰️🅱️🅾️🆅🅴 🅻🅸🅼🅸🆃🆂 🅰️🅽🅳 🅼🅴🅽🆃🅰️🅻 🅱️🅰️🆁🆁🅸🅴🆁🆂 (🅿️🅰️🆁🆃 1) Rising above mental limitations, which are obstacles in our life journey and slow our progress towards our life goals, is an important spiritual skill that we need to be trained in. 𝐀 𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐛𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐨𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞. Suppose I have a broken relationship with a loved one, like a parent or a sibling (brother or sister) or a life partner. This causes a belief to set inside my mind that I have been unsuccessful in handling a relationship well. The belief can result in a negative perception that all relationships are sorrow giving. When that perception then starts flowing in our actions and people whom we are close to do not receive the positive energy from us which they should, it starts affecting relationships negatively. Also, sometimes we do not know why a particular person is distancing himself from us when our words and actions towards the person are what they are expecting? In these cases, our mind has been imprisoned by an incorrect belief like the one shared above and that has affected our perception of the other person negatively. The energy of that perception constantly travels to the other person and hits him or her which causes the other person to respond to us in a manner which is different from what we would like them to. So, the mental limit is in the background in these cases. 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐥𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐢𝐜𝐡 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐞𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲 𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐮𝐛-𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲. Suppose, I have fared badly in a school exam in one year. As a result, I have formed a series of mental barriers in our mind like – 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘰 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘱 𝘰𝘳 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘢 𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘢𝘮 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘰𝘳 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘰 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘳 𝘐 𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘦𝘥. Such barriers are strong mental forces which are like hammers hitting on our mind and personality. This causes a negative impact on future events of the same nature, in this case the giving of another school exam. (To be continued tomorrow …) #Oceanofknowledge

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