Sexologist Lily

Make her beg to have sex with ya Here’s, and now I'm gonna tell you about a technique that, if done correctly, will make your gf remember you 100%, and she'll look forward to repeating it😏 It's hard for a man to be a good lover for the same reason it's hard for a hungry man to be a cook. He might be happy to cook a complicated recipe, but he's more likely to start eating everything in the preparation phase🤷🏻‍♀️ Pretend you don't have a penis. Ignore it. All your other body parts stay with you: lips, tongue, as many as ten fingers - try to make them a complete substitute for it. And remember the cardinal rule: there will be no classic sex with penis penetration unless she asks you for it. Out loud. In words. Without any hints from your side. Bringing the girl to this stage of arousal you are 99% likely to give her more pleasure than anyone else before you. The main thing is not to get off early because of overexcitement.

A little bit about innuendos Here is Lily, and let me tell you frankly, I've never realized how many women believe that men can read our thoughts. Instead of telling directly about their desire or demonstrating it by an action, they resort to a system of subtle, clear only to themselves hints. I know it's boring directly, but you have no idea how hard it is for guys to know they're wanted for something from these half-transparent hints. Forget telepathy. Words and unambiguous touches are more effective. If you want something, say so directly.

Passive BJ Here is Lily, and I wanna tell you about one highly uncommon way to give a blowjob😏 The point is simple, the girl lies down on the bed, hangs her head down (as in the photo) and opens her mouth, that's where her active actions end. The guy gets next to her (if needed, drops down on one or two knees) and enters the girl. Pros 🔹 Amazing sensations for both partners which cannot be repeated in any other way. 🔹 The man himself controls the process, its frequency and intensity. 🔹 This position makes the girl's throat as "straight" as possible and the gag reflex is much weaker than in a classic blowjob Cons 🔹 The girl cannot breathe and stop the process herself, so you have to discuss beforehand the conventional sign to indicate to your partner that you have to end it. Blood rushes to the head, which can cause dizziness and even fainting if you don't have enough oxygen, so be careful - safety is important.

3rd in a relationship Here is Lily, and I wanna talk about the most frequent hero of "love triangles" - the smartphone. You can't even imagine how often the phone becomes the cause of conflicts in a relationship. And sometimes to such an extent that people are forced to go to a psychologist. When your partner is near you - put the phone aside. And it doesn't matter, together you are 20 years or only started to meet. Thinking about the perfect dinner, you can hardly imagine that all its participants were staring at their smartphones. Today's couples often don't have enough time for each other, so gadgets can be the cause of serious disagreements. Don't forget that no one likes to be neglected for anything on their phone❗️

There's no shame in using lube. Here's Lily, and I wanna follow up on my previous post about lube. I'm telling you from experience: no matter how horny a girl is, the natural lubricant may not be enough. And when using toys or, for example, anal sex - without lube there is no point in even trying to do something, at best you'll just get a hell of a lot of pain😬 Under no circumstances should you even try to replace lube with improvised means. If saliva is not the worst option (but, again, it dries up very quickly), then some people manage to use sunflower oil or cream as a lubricant. We don't even care to talk about the consequences of such "inventions" for the mucous membranes of the intimate areas.

Respect each other Lily is on the phone, and I need you to realize that without respect in a relationship, you will always doubt each other's intentions, judge your partner's choices, and try to limit their independence🤷🏻‍♀️ Besides, you also have to respect yourself. Without self-respect, you can't feel like you deserve your partner's respect. You'll constantly try to prove yourself worthy of it, and you'll only end up hurting your relationship. 🔸 Never complain about your partner to your friends. If you're unhappy about something in his behavior, discuss it with him yourself, not with your friends and family. 🔸 Respect the fact that your partner may have friends, interests, hobbies and views different from yours. 🔸 Consider the opinion of your mate. Don't forget, you're a team. If one is unhappy, then look for a solution to the problem together. 🔸Don't keep everything inside, discuss any problems. You shouldn't have forbidden topics to talk about.

A little bit about the benefits of lube Hi everyone, Lilly is here with a new "old" tip - if you've never used lube, it's time to start⏱ Lubricant is the real hero of sex. Lubricant will help reduce not only the discomfort of friction when the condom dries out, but it will also allow you to discover new facets in sex🔥 Although lube can be made with water, oil, silicone, and other ingredients - water-based lube is usually best: it's less likely to cause allergies, safer to use with condoms, and easy to wash off. There's no wrong way to use lube during intercourse: you can apply the lube directly to the entrance of the vagina, or to the condom. Even a small amount of lube will reduce friction, but the amount is personal to each couple, and you'll know what amount of lube will be optimal for that particular sex in the process👌

Bites Here's Lily, and I wanna talk about such a controversial thing as biting during kissing and sex👀 🔹 Is it a thing? Yeah, definitely. 🔹 Always? No, no and no. Bites, just like any slight pain during a burst of passion - warms up the arousal, so "biting" is possible and even necessary. You can bite your lips, nipples, inner thighs and even your clitoris😏 The main thing is to keep in mind that biting needs to be very careful: not everyone can like pain during sex, and those who like it - like light bites, not attempts to bite a piece😈 off your partner p.s. and leave the neck alone. Bruising in a prominent place often causes needless stares and questions, unless of course you are 14😂

Dedicate time to your partner and reflect if he or she isn't doing the same Here's Lily, and I wanna tackle a very common problem in a relationship: ignoring your partner Let's say you have a super jammed schedule, but let's be honest, you can still find 10 seconds to respond to a text, at least to write that you're not very comfortable talking right now. When people use "I've been too busy" as an argument, it's not okay. Basically, it means that the person isn't even trying to find a few seconds to pay attention to their relationship.

"Chained" sex Hi all👋, Lily is on, and the weekend is a great time to play with accessories, and to be precise - today we're gonna discuss such a beautiful thing as handcuffs😏 Such a seemingly trivial accessory, which you can buy in any sex shop or order online, gives a huge space for fantasy. The illustration shows a standing pose with the partner's hands secured with handcuffs behind her back. This, of course, is not the end of the options: you can handcuff a man or chain his hands to the headboard. Explore🔥 I enjoy such experiments... what about u?