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also, bear is not a "hopeless romantic", stfu. he is a fucking incel and the movie is not about "the crazy gf, violent gf". it’s about the toxic male entitlement, and it’s not about nikki's obsession either. it’s bear who is obsessed with her. i don't even think that bear liked her for who she was. he just wanted her to like him and he was obsessed with the idea of her liking him. the fact that nikki was always conscious but never in control until the very end is so disturbing because you see how she repels the idea of being with bear and bear on the other hand borderline sexually assaults her throughout the movie and you can see how disgustedshe is during all of it. the bedroom scene where she begs him to kill her and him making the whole thing about himself??? fuck you wtf?

people who empathize with bear are not lonely enough

gotta go non-verbal for atleast an year to process everything that's going on lately cuz wtf?

fuck it, i will just watch the pirated cinema copy but the video quality is so fucked 😭

sounds pathetic but i think chocolate icecream is prolly the best thing that has ever happened to me. also, havamore my man is making such a great progress especially in the chocolate varieties. i tried chocolate brownie - awesome. tried dark chocolate today - was about to get a boner, okay bye loveyou.

doesitevengetbetter?¿

vh1 was my introduction to pop music

someone sure has come a long way (imma off myself soon anyway so cya)

this song is such a lockdown nostalgia man

the internet's obsession with the term "girl's girl" has just become social policing atp. somewhere along the way, "pick me" stopped meaning a woman who actively puts down other women for male validation and started meaning any woman who doesn't perform femininity in the approved way. disagree with the crowd, have the wrong interests, and suddenly you're not a girl's girl. it's fascinating because the term was supposedly meant to encourage solidarity among women. instead it has become one of the easiest ways to shame them. being called not a girl's girl functions almost like a social death sentence online. the accusation itself often matters more than whether it's actually true. and before anyone misunderstands the point, this isn't an argument against women supporting women. it's an argument against turning support into a performance for reels and kindness into a moral requirement that women, specifically, are expected to demonstrate at all times. the issue isn't the traits themselves. the issue is when a social expectation rebranded as feminism. the irony is that the people most committed to the rhetoric of being a girl's girl are often the quickest to withdraw that generosity from women who don't fit the mold. the "girl's girl" versus "pick me" binary isn't new. it's just the latest version of a much older pattern which is dividing women into good women and bad women according to whichever version of femininity is currently fashionable.

i thought i was the only one

true dat

i so wanna go watch a movie in theatres after 10 but well-

i'm waiting for tuesday to watch obsession in theatres cuz tuesday ko pjp gives even premium seats at just 99