the pendleton: return to roots!

@Xicunn,

The reason why we broke up is because, after a while, I realized you weren’t really in love with me. You liked the comfort of having someone by your side, someone to talk to, someone to fill the empty spaces but that’s not the same as loving a person. I felt it in the way you showed up only when you needed something, and in how the effort never really came from both sides. It took me some time to admit it, but I always felt like I was more of a presence than a partner. I deserved a love that was real, and you deserved the chance to figure out what you truly want not just the comfort of not being alone.

@Zaesan,

The reason why we broke up is because almost every conversation felt like we were on different pages. Somewhere along the way, our fights became more familiar than our good days, and the way we talked to each other stopped feeling safe. We kept trying to fix it, but every attempt just turned into another argument or another misunderstanding. It sucks, doesn’t it?. We were both reacting from frustration, not love, and our relationship slowly turned into something that drained us instead of supporting us. We weren’t bringing out the best in each other anymore, and staying together was starting to make us both smaller, not stronger. Yeah.. we both needed the peace that came from letting this relationship end.

@hanjyin,

The reason why we broke up isn’t because you cheat on me or something big happen. You were there, I was there, but the relationship just stopped growing. There were no surprises anymore, no real effort to keep things alive, and everything slowly turned into routine. We were together, but half the time it felt like we were just doing what we were ‘supposed’ to do, not what we actually felt. And at some point, we both started wondering if love is even supposed to feel like that?. Yeah, actually we didn’t know. Eventually, we realized we weren’t giving each other what we needed anymore. It wasn’t toxic, and it wasn’t anyone’s fault. It just a relationship that we can't keep anymore.

@Jueemin

The reason why we broke up is because you know that I did love you, but being with you slowly made me feel like losing myself. I started adjusting everything like my reactions, my habits, even the way I talked just to keep the peace or make you less disappointed. And over time, it felt like I was losing parts of who I really am. It wasn’t your fault alone, and it wasn’t mine either. We just weren’t good at being ourselves while being together. And a relationship that makes you shrink instead of grow isn't something that worth sacrificing.

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