Emotionally Weak Men!! Do Not Read This - Hard Pill To Swallow
This is the reason why you got cheated on
Many a men have found themselves broken, ruthlessly disrespected, and with crushing sense of betrayal after they found out that their girlfriend or wife has been cheating on them. The one person you decided to love truthfully, have been together for years, building a future, sharing dreams and secrets… But one day she wakes up and decides to sink your heart with betrayal.
Anything would’ve been better than cheating. Cheating has deep psychological impact on man’s psyche - it emasculates you, degrades your worth to pitfalls of the earth, and leaves you unable to trust a person ever again. It cripples you for life. Once a woman cheats on a man, you lose your ability to trust a woman ever again.
The entire world crumbles before your eyes… You begin to question, How and why… How could she do that to you? She promised to love you with all her heart. She promised she was different. You began to wonder whether all the lovely things she did for you; writing letters, sending long paragraphs, gifts for you, her obsession with you… were all a fake?
Why would she do that to you? She was always the beautiful, charming and bubbly girl you knew. You admired her and never thought she could do this to you. Yet, you sit here reading this being proven wrong. You poured your heart into loving this person, in the makings of a perfect relationship but in return - The illusion of perfect relationship remains shattered. You thought she was the love of your life, only to find her making love in someone’s else bedroom.
You sit reading this, unable understand the true nature of women, crying, walloping in self-pity, broken and thrashed to the core with an extreme sense of worthlessness.
We won’t sugarcoat this, but the situation you have ended up in, is completely your fault.
Sure, you can blame her for betraying your trust and not valuing your love; but woman’s true nature cares little about anyone but herself. She is her sole and entire focus, and her emotions her only reality; whatever she feels in the moment is her truth.
Before a woman cheats on a man, there are always signs. You could’ve seen this coming from miles ago - If only you were aware of true intricacies of the female nature (light switch effect, brifaultt’s law, oneitis, hypergamy, SMV), you could have easily spotted that she was going to cheat on you or leave you. Hell… You could’ve even prevented it.
Men who get cheated on are HVB (High-value beta), women keep them around for the resources, commitment and emotional stability they provide… but she doesn’t like having sex with them.
If you are in this situation, halt the self-pity, learn from your mistake. It is time to change. It is to time make sure something like this never ever happens to you again.
Firstly, you must never take the woman who cheated on you back, no matter the extent she pleads, begs or apologizes… she has disrespected you. Even if you take her she will not come to respect you but resent you. You must kill your love for her.
Then, you must understand everything there is to know about female nature. If you were even semi-aware of true female nature you could have seen the signs of broken relationships from miles ago and could have prevented all this while saving your dignity as a man.
Have you ever wondered… Why do some men get all the women in world, treat women like shit yet never get cheated on? While the perfect boyfriend, the loving man, is always in news of betrayed relationships.
If you could become this kind of man; the man with multiple options who doesn’t has to keep up with women’s drama and has never suffer the cruelty of being cheated on you. Would you?
The self-pity, the anguish, the broken heart you face now, will never again become the reality of your life. You can turn yourself into an entirely new man - A man of character, respect and focus. You will become selfish - the arrogant asshole everyone complains about, but likes to be around.