Consent, Conflict, Community with EllaDoesWorkshops ✨
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Building alternative queer spaces full of consent, love and radical honesty to change yourself and the world through and within community 🧡 linktr.ee/elladoesworkshops
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پست‌های کانال
THIS SATURDAY | OCT 10
Hello! I’m Ella a self-diagnosed autistic workshop facilitator whose special interest is all things consent.
I think consent is a foundational skill that underlies all aspects of social interaction – not just in the bedroom! Unfortunately, it’s not often taught and it so badly needs to be practiced.
In this workshop, we’ll practice tools to check in with ourselves, recognize when a boundary or need needs to be communicated, and how to approach those conversations. I will guide you through open discussions and exercises.
I’m trauma-informed and hold spaces with care and flexibility so you can always decide if you want to partake in an exercise or just watch.
Everyone is welcome! No need to have an official diagnosis – if you feel like this would be a beneficial space for you, you’re join.
More info: https://ellashields.com/event/consent-for-autistic-folks/
| 2 | FEEDBACK REQUEST
Hello dear followers of my channel! This September I'm going to launch a new offering - a 3-month container where I work with two people who want to practice conflict skills together. I'm very excited!
If anyone has the time and capacity, would you like to read over my offering page and give me feedback? Is it clear? Do you feel hooked? Anything that makes it really repellant??
Do my links work?
I appreciate you! Thanks :)) | 506 |
| 3 | ellashields.com/event/the-art-of-staying/ | 650 |
| 4 |  +2ellashields.com/event/the-art-of-staying/
🧡🧡🧡 | 491 |
| 5 |  I’m so bored of the scripts!
We’re either friends or we’re lovers. We can hug, but only hello and goodbye. We can go on dates, but only if we intend to be romantic partners.
There’s so much more to explore once we move beyond the habits, hierarchies, and expectations that shape how we touch, relate, and imagine the future. The spectrum of intimacy and connection is rife with possibility – we just need to get creative!
Inspired by the joys of being queer, we will explore what becomes possible when curiosity replaces certainty.
What happens when we let play lead the way?
Swiss Alps | March 5-8 | Sliding scale 425-575 CHF | 601 |
| 6 |  What if conflict could become a doorway to connection?
Too often, we experience conflict as distance, rupture, or disconnection. This weekend asks a different question: what if harm could become a place to deepen intimacy, trust, and care?
Intimacy of Harm is an invitation to practice staying present with yourself, each other, and the communities you are part of. Together, we’ll explore how to feel seen and safe, communicate needs with clarity, and navigate differences without losing connection. We’ll experiment with holding conflict as a tool for understanding, empathy, and collective growth.
The core question is:
how can we build relationships — personal, collective, and societal — that allow us to be free to be ourselves, even in the presence of conflict?
Swiss Alps | February 5-8 | Sliding scale 425-575 CHF | 853 |
| 7 |  What happens when we stop rushing toward the next thing?
Winter invites us inward. The pace of the world slows, and what’s left is what’s here: the ache, the gratitude, the exhaustion, the stillness. This weekend is an invitation to tend to what we’ve built, to feel what’s alive, to give space to what’s ready to be grieved.
When we stop running, we meet what’s true.
The core question is:
how do we stay – with ourselves, each other, and the world – when everything asks us to move on?
Swiss Alps | January 8th-11th, 2026 | Sliding scale 425-575 CHF | 422 |
| 8 | 2-3 more people for tonight would be ideal!! if you know anyone who realizes the masters tools won't dismantle the masters house and wants to know how to get started on a new way of living... tell em to come through!! 🥰🥰 | 387 |
| 9 |  Conflict & Crafts is a cozy evening to keep your hands busy and let your brain process what's going on in your life & relationships.
Conflict can be a tricky thing to talk about. It's deeply stigmatized. One can feel like a burden when 'dumping' on friends, feel guilt around the nuance of gossip vs venting, and be so stuck in our own patterns we don't see them anymore. Being in conflict can feel scary or like we're failing. But conflict is everywhere: in our relationships, our communities, and the world around us. And discussing the things that we are ashamed of brings them to light, making them easier to carry.
Semi-guided discussion | crafting | donation based
More info and registration here🧵 | 409 |
| 10 |  CONSENT FIGHTS CAPITALISM
Tuesday, 11th Nov. - Filmarche - Lahnstraße 25
19h - doors
19:15-21:15 workshop
Join Ella in this 2 hour workshop to discuss consent and boundaries as a tool to fight authoritarianism. Expect embodied exercises, group discussions and inspiration to take agency over your life and start organizing!
This is a FREE workshop that is being held for a film project. If you come, you consent to being filmed and having this footage being shared on social media. For questions about the workshop email elladoesworkshops@gmail.com. For questions about the film project contact Nils at nilsalexander@posteo.de .
RSVP here. | 448 |
| 11 |  Three Winter Weekends in the Valley of Light
Graubünden, Switzerland
This winter we gather in the snowy sunshine for three cozy, transformative weekends exploring how we grieve, repair, and play.
Come to one — or join all three!
🌒 The Art of Staying — Jan 8–11, 2026
Grief, care, and the slow art of remaining.
⚡️Intimacy of Harm — Feb 5–8, 2026
Turning conflict into depth & community.
🫧 Unbound Play — March 5–8, 2026
Queer, playful rebellion beyond the boxes.
All weekends include accomodation in a cozy chalet, shared meals, introspective facilitation and time in the snow. 6-12 participants.
Sliding scale 425–575 CHF | 697 |
| 12 |  +3I'm coming back to Amsterdam so soon!!! So wonderfully excited for the opportunity to deep dive into consent and conflict and relationships with my Dutch community. I just can't keep away!
More info about the event here: https://hipsy.nl/event/65852-intimacy-of-harm-how-to-build-community
And if you're in the Netherlands the week after the event, I'm around and would love to meet up and reconnect with people 💕 | 162 |
| 13 | Nuance of Consent tonight!! It's about play and the joys of our imagination :)
When did you stop playing? Why? What kind of play do you still allow yourself to engage in? How else do you learn and practice new skills?? Come get silly with it tonight at Daruma!
https://www.daruma.berlin/events/nuanceofconsent | 153 |
| 14 |  wholesome anarchist training is BACK, BABY!!
Starting 22 of September we have the next batch of monthly workshops coming up. All about figuring out what YOUR values are and how to live them besides just blindly following rules 🫣🫣🫣
With the response to protests and parades getting increasingly more violent and fa$€ist, we need this kind of training now more than ever. Who are you? What inspires you? What do you want out of life? How do you ask for it? And what does this have to do with politics??
No political experience needed to sign up!
https://hipsy.nl/event/69929-wholesome-anarchist-training-3-3-ditch-the-rules-find-your-flow
Please reach out with any questions, access needs, if you need a discount, or anything else ☀️🐿🪲✨ | 459 |
| 15 | I had the chance to do a workshop for the incoming students of UCU and it was... not my best work. I'm struggling through COVID brain fog and find that I can't think so clearly or improvise on the spot, which is something that I rely on heavily during workshops. There were other factors that added to the difficulty - one being that the students didn't sign up for my workshop but were told to go because of the schedule. That makes a HUGE difference in terms of participants' openness to being vulnerable, to trust me when I ask them to do silly things like shake their whole body between exercises... Despite all the feedback and critique mid-workshop (yay Dutch culture!!), many students still found nuggets of wisdom in what I said and appreciated the workshop and the insight I provided.
I learned so much in terms of adapting workshops to big groups (100+ people per group!!), how to create safety in more "professional" settings, and also what my personal style of corporate workshop looks like. I now know what a diversity and inclusion workshop by Ella would look like (spoiler: it's about confronting the scary feelings of not knowing things and owning that with gentleness, humility, and giving each other space to make mistakes).
Thank you so much UCU for continuing to be a place where I can learn and grow and develop even so many years later 😌😌 and thanks to the UCSA for hiring me!
Love you, Utreg 🧡 I'll be back in two weeks, NL!! | 158 |
| 16 |  +4I felt a lot of feelings this week!!
Coming back to Utrecht - not Amsterdam - brought with it a big wave of feeling at home. This physical location saw so much of my personal development, my friendships formed and lost, the adventures I had... each corner I turned around showed me a different life path that could have been. But this is the life that currently is and my goodness am I thankful. It definitely wouldn't have happened this way had I not moved to Utrecht nearly a decade ago and that makes me feel big feelings!! (I'll let you know what the feelings are like.. next week? It takes me a second to figure this stuff out) | 169 |
| 17 | To those participating tonight, there will be some journaling. If you'd prefer to journal in your own notebook instead of spare paper, please bring it! Otherwise I'll have paper and pens available :) | 280 |
| 18 |  Tomorrow!!! There's still an opportunity to get some tickets for the workshop ✨🧡
As we all know, it’s important to communicate our needs and desires when it comes to (sexual) intimacy. However, when it really comes to it, it can be scary to actually do so.
So, let’s talk about how to talk during intimate moments!
With this workshop, I hope to create a space to practice feeling into what you need, think actively about what feels good, and say everything out loud at least once ✨ Let's practice together!!
https://www.daruma.berlin/events/communicare | 290 |
| 19 | TOMORROW!! Another Nuance of Consent workshop :) The topic this week is verbal vs non-verbal communication 👀 Hope to see you at Daruma (Karl-Marx-Str 275-277) tomorrow at 19:30!
https://www.daruma.berlin/events/nuanceofconsent | 301 |
| 20 |  As we all know, it’s important to communicate our needs and desires when it comes to (sexual) intimacy. However, when it really comes to it, it can be scary to actually do so.
So, let’s talk about how to talk during intimate moments!
With this workshop, I hope to create a space to practice feeling into what you need, think actively about what feels good, and say everything out loud at least once - essentially, to create a laboratory in which you have the opportunity to figure out how to say what you need, and what works/doesn’t for you to feel safe ✨
https://www.daruma.berlin/events/communicare | 1 405 |
