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Question for the Week Which of your current habits is least aligned with the type of person you hope to become? Is it time to take them off? ​

Every time you say yes to something you don’t want to do, this will happen. You will resent the people you said yes to. You will do a bad job. You’ll have less energy for the things you were doing a good job on. You will make less money. And yet another small percentage of your life will be used up, burned up, a smoke signal to the future saying ‘I did it again.’” Learn to say NO. Learning to say NO is beyond just simply saying NO. You have to find a way to say it. Using the right words and sentences. I will give you a ChatGPT Prompt: Kindly share the best way to say no to my colleague requesting meetings outside my work hours. ©Seamless Life

"He who has learned to disagree without being disagreeable has discovered the most valuable secret of negotiation.” Let me put it in simpler terms. He who has learned how to punch his opponent without them feeling pain has won the battle of negotiation. This has to do with our relationships. Relationship is a key part of our seamless life. We definitely need relationships. But, we need to know how to punch people and not make them feel pain. Sometimes, it's with our words or actions. We need to learn emotional intelligence. How to be aware of how others feel and how to deal with them. (I don't mean fight with them 😁) I mean understand how each person is to be related with. There are some bosses that you easily relate with and others that are strictly professional. In summary, Learn to punch, but most importantly learn how to deliver the punch. You deserve a Seamless Life Join The Tribe👇 🏅https://samfemi.substack.com/subscribe 🏅https://t.me/theseamlesslife Share with Someone #seamlesslife #samfemi

Micro-quote with a macro impact: “Strategic change doesn’t just start a the top. It starts with your calendar. We barely use calendars. So let's switch the word calendar to to-do list. The truth is to-do list so powerful. It guides your day. It starts the night before the next day. The week before the new week. It's about planning your task and activities ahead. It's a mini sense of purpose. But, a lot of times we fill up our to-do list with so much task that aren't meant to be in it. We need to learn to know the 2-3 major task that moves the day and tackle those first. You must learn to write your to-do list in the order of Do now, Later, Delegate and Delete. It will help you know unnecessary task that take up your time. Hope this helps you. Have a productive day, friend. You deserve a Seamless Life Join The Tribe👇 🏅https://samfemi.substack.com/subscribe 🏅https://t.me/theseamlesslife Share with Someone #seamlesslife #samfemi

You are not the cause of everything that happens to you, but you are responsible for how you respond to everything that happens to you. Still on the topic of building strength for the dark days. The Holy Bible says: "If you faint in the day of adversity, your strength is small." We all are not immune to Life's struggles. But, how prepared we are will determine the outcome.

It is not too late to do what you want to do—if you stop waiting for the time to be right. Patiently Predicting hardly wins. Predicting is different from planning and research. Predicting; It's a time killer. After you plan, you are meant to take action. Playing against the odds is by many trials and errors. Waiting for the right time is like waiting for a shit coin to boom. Repent today.

Life is harder when you expect a lot of the world and little of yourself. Life is easier when you expect a lot of yourself and little of the world. High standards, low expectations. Keep building, keep preparing, keep grinding. Results will definitely come forth. Don't be quick to quit. Don't be Quick to find results. Into that business for 1 year? Keep at it. Refine and rebuild. High standard. Low expectations.

You do not have to sit outside in the dark. If, however, you want to look at the stars, you will find that darkness is necessary. But the stars neither require nor demand it." — Annie Dillard, Teaching a Stone to Talk This can be interpreted in so many ways. I would have sent this to my woman if I had one. 😁 To her, it might mean a different thing. But to us, What this simply means is that your worth might be revealed by challenges. This doesn't change who you are. Yet, you need challenges to be appreciated by others. The darkness plays a part. If you are not a real star. The darkness will further hide you. If the challenges overcome you. It means your strength is small. You must continue to fight to become better daily. Today is another day. Let's get better. You deserve a Seamless Life Join The Tribe👇 🏅https://samfemi.substack.com/subscribe 🏅https://t.me/theseamlesslife Share with Someone #seamlesslife #samfemi

Been away from here for 2 weeks or less I think. It's good to be writing to you again. Hope you are living a seamless life wherever you are. Living a seamless life starts with the belief that it is possible. You need to do away with the mindset of suffering as a lifestyle. Living a seamless life is not the absence of struggle. Living a seamless life is having the ability to overcome and thrive amid challenges. Are you building yourself for the struggles to come? Financially, Academically, Career-wise, Relationship, Power, Character and others. Today's preparation is the only thing that will guarantee tomorrow's seamless life. You skip saving, you suffer in times of drought. You skip building relationships, you suffer on days you need help or ease. Seamless Life is not the absence of struggles; it's equipping yourself for the time they come. That's why I write to you daily. That's why I do all that I do. That I can equip myself and you with the help of God. Cheers to Living a Seamless Life. Share our link with someone. https://t.me/theseamlesslife

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