Limo Oueslati | Systems for Dating & Business

DM me the word “Approach” if you’d like to finally get 1-3 dates a week, I’ll show you my full blueprint: https://t.me/limooueslati

POV: Approaching a stunning Kazakh Girl in Da Nang, Vietnam 🇻🇳

You still have 240 days left this year.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ That’s enough time to completely flip your dating life.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ But only if you actually change what you’re doing.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Not “improve it a little.”⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Change it.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Structure it.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Systemize it.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ And if you want someone to just look at your situation and tell you exactly what’s missing…⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Then get on a call.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ We’ll map out:⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Where you’re at⁣⁣⁣ What’s blocking you⁣⁣⁣ And the exact system you need to go from inconsistent to 1–3 dates a week⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ No fluff.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ No theory.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Just a clear plan you can execute.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Pick a time here if you're serious about leveling up your dating life THIS year: https://go.higherselfcircle.com/schedule ⁣⁣⁣

So ask yourself this…⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ From January until now…⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Did you actually go all in?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Or did you stay in your comfort zone?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Did you approach consistently?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Did you build a real pipeline of options?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Or did you rely on random luck and a few conversations here and there?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Did you fix the actual bottleneck…⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Or did you keep tweaking small things that don’t matter?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Because here’s the truth most people don’t want to hear:⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Your dating results are a system problem.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Not a “you” problem.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ And if you don’t change the system…⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Nothing changes.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣

It’s May 5th.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ We’re already a third of the year in.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ 125 days gone. 240 left.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Feels like January was yesterday, right?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ So let me ask you something…⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Where is your dating life actually at right now?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Not the version you tell yourself.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ The real one.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Are you consistently going on dates every week?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Meeting the kind of girls you actually want?⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Or are you still stuck in the same cycle…⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Watching content⁣⁣⁣ Thinking about it⁣⁣⁣ Maybe taking action here and there⁣⁣⁣ But nothing really changing⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Because that’s what happens for most guys.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ They stay “around” the game without actually being in it.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ And then 4 months pass.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ And they’re still in the same position.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ Look, I’m not saying this to call you out for no reason.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ I’m saying it because most guys never ask themselves this honestly.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ They just keep repeating the same patterns and hope something clicks.⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣

Travelling to cities for less than ten days is horrible for productivity. The digital nomad thing really works if you are 2+ months in a city. I’ve travelled so many places for just a few days, and it's very fun, but very hard to get some real work done. It's always a time sink. You barely get to know the area, you get constant new stimulation and you just get reminded you're an outsider. If you want to get some work done, stay in for at least 60+ days in the same exact spot.

Every woman wants a bad boy who is only good for her And every man wants a good girl who is only bad for him

Just dropped a NEW Banger Video: You Don’t Need Pickup To Attract High-Value Women https://youtu.be/JeONLtxcJsA?si=lTwVgcJwiwSR_FJJ

Bro to bro: Normalize approaching attractive women anywhere you go. You're not "bothering them". You're literally making their day.

Approach anxiety is one of the highest forms of natural selection. NO balls to approach her = NO date, no sex, no offspring.

Men Are SABOTAGING Their Dating Game (And They Don’t Even Know) https://youtu.be/4zCLQvj5_8M?si=jLYr015uxC8XnBAR

When you avoid confrontation in relationships, you create conflict.

Women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something. As a man you have a burden of performance. Men are loved for their current utility and provision, not unconditionally. Stop being delusional and understand this harsh reality.

What It Actually Takes to Date 9s & 10s Consistently https://youtu.be/5V4hzMPXZ80

Best investments in yourself: • Traveling • Learning new skills • Spending time alone • Strengthening your faith • Taking care of your health • Investing in your knowledge

I regularly bone whatever woman I am with for 45-90 minutes. It is just FUN making a woman cum her brains out & scream till she’s nearly hoarse with your dick. I work really hard & when I’m boning a chick I want to play hard & enjoy the heck out of it (and her). (If it’s the first time & I am super excited I might only last 10-20 mins. Otherwise, full steam ahead.) That guy in the screenshot sounds exactly like me: taking little breaks to last longer, more likely to cum sooner if she gets SUPER enthusiastic, etc. Reading the replies to this post are nuts though! People cannot believe it. They are talking about “he must be on substances”, “he’s a porn addict”, “he’s on a boner pill”, “he must have a small dick”, “he must jerk off constantly”, “he must be super attracted to her”, “he must NOT be attracted to her”, “it’s a creative writing exercise and not real”… LOL. Let me tell you, as a guy who is just like that: • I have never once in my life taken a pill for boners (can’t imagine ever needing this… I am 43 and can have sex again within 15 minutes of ejaculating, though it is getting harder now than in my 20s) • I don’t use ‘substances’ (fully straight edge here) • The only porn I have ever watched is lesbian. And not in many years • I rarely jerk off (I prefer the real thing) • My dick is not small • I’m only going to keep a girl around if I’m very attracted to her, so I guess there is that… THAT SAID: I recently realized how much of an outlier this is. The 2005 study “A multinational population survey of intravaginal ejaculation latency time” timed 500 couples’ penetrative vaginal sex times and the LONGEST session of all 500 couples was 44 minutes. My AVERAGE is longer than that! Maybe I overcompensated. I didn’t start having sex until I was 23 and figured I needed to be really, really good at sex or else maybe girls wouldn’t want to stay with me. Well, I can say that it definitely does get women addicted to you. Getting women to stay has never been a problem (I have never been broken up with). Also though: I have rarely had women complain about it being ‘too much’ like this woman is. I once asked a girl who grew up on a farm if banging her for an hour+ was too much for her and she said, “The farmer gets tired but the field never does.” Well all right then! Anyway, I guess most guys don’t care about lasting a really long time or else guys like this guy and I wouldn’t be outliers. But just in case you do care: • Take breaks if you’re getting too excited. Take enough breaks and you’ll basically stop getting excited to the point of almost ejaculating, and at that point you can basically go forever. • Learn to distract yourself by mentally reenacting something exciting but non-sexual. I have a few good sports games in my memory from my sports-watching days and use those. Helps calm you when you’re getting too excited. • Focus on positions the girl won’t get tired in. This makes it a lot easier to go for longer. Every now and then you can switch up into more tiring positions for her (doggy, cowgirl, etc.) for a little variety. • Get really good at rhythm, it is the key to making women climax. That and both clitoral & deep vaginal stimulation. Learn positions where you can achieve both (pelvic rubbing for the clitoral stimulation). • If you have the chafing problem, where you start to chafe after 40 minutes or so, she is probably pushing you out of her every time she cums (squirters can start to do this to squirt a lot more with each orgasm). Train her to stop pushing you out and tell her she instead needs to pull you in. The chafing will stop.

When you understand female psychology and communication on a deep level, your success with women becomes incredibly predictable.

An inch of movement is better than a mile of intentions.

POV: Approaching Russian girl on the phone at the beach.

Watch how Kyle went from getting 0 dates to having a girlfriend and changing his life. ⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ DM me the word "System", and I’ll send you the exact roadmap Kyle followed: https://t.me/limooueslati