Limo Oueslati | Systems for Dating & Business

I texted a girl and she took more than 48 hours to reply. I deleted her number and focused on my life. Girls are always with their phones. I got the message clearly.

So many testimonials and success stories the past few weeks, I forget to share them here 🚀

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2/ The Lack Of Systems Most men have a strategy for other areas of their lives like their business or fitness… But they have ZERO strategy or system when it comes to dating life. Or worse, they keep doing the same things that clearly don’t work. This was my case when I started. I didn't really have a strategy, I was just going out with friends and getting drunk in clubs and I was just relying on luck. I tried to do some half-ass cold approach but I didn't really know WHAT TO DO and HOW TO DO IT. Or I would go swipe on dating apps and waste a lot of my time. I tried figuring everything out by myself by watching YouTube videos and courses but it was hard to figure things out… Until I invested in my first mentor at the age of 18 and started adopting the right pragmatic strategies. Since then, I invested in many other mentors and kept taking action and refining my systems and strategies. Fast forward to today, I can proudly say that I'm living my dream dating life. I'm getting dates whenever I want, I travel the world all the time and meet amazing women consistently, and even travel with them. And if it wasn't for my mentors and the systems I learned, I certainly wouldn't be here. This is true both for my dating and my business. I’ve now taught these systems to over 700+ clients and they’ve gotten amazing success & results.

1/ Excuses Whenever you see a beautiful woman in your day-to-day life you think to yourself: “I don’t have time for relationships.” “I'll have more time later, I'll approach later” “Once I become richer, then women will chase me.” “I’m just going to work on myself first and they will come” Deep down you know these are nothing more than elaborate excuses. Coping mechanisms that allow you to kick the can down the road and avoid the harsh truth: You are too afraid, timid, and unwilling to face your inadequacy with women. You never even consider giving yourself the opportunity. And this is fundamentally why women don’t like you. How can she respect a man who lives his life in fear? Why would she be attracted to a man who lacks the balls to go out and do what’s necessary to get her? Genuinely ask yourself: Are you really content with continuing to make excuses? Are you willing to accept the fact that if you continue on this path, you will never date the woman of your dreams? Or are you finally going to cut the bullshit and take charge of your dating life?

2 Things Holding You Back From Dating Amazing Girls

We never run of things to say. We only run into a filter that suppresses our authentic voice. We hold off on what we’re supposed to say because we let our inhibitions get in the way of authenticity and boldness. This filter is going to be holding you back from expressing yourself freely in social situations. Unless you fix that, you won’t be able to go past those platonic & friendly conversations with women you’re attracted to.

If you’re approaching 10-20 girls a week and can't get laid at least 1-2x a month with a new woman, there is something wrong with YOU. You are the common factor in all your interactions with women.

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Next time she does something dumb or clumsy, hit her with something along this line: “It’s a good thing you’re attractive.” This works like magic. It teases her playfully, calls out her mistake, and slips in a compliment at the same time. It shows you’re not afraid to call her out while still making her feel desired.

Competence & confidence is a man’s make up. So if you have these 2, you don’t need to be good looking to appeal to females.

“You’re young.” “You’ve got time…” That’s both True & False. You need to act with urgency as if death is near while realizing you need to also enjoy life and not stress yourself out too much. If you’re just burning time and waiting, then then all it does is extend how long you’ll realize that: 1. Tomorrow isn’t guaranteed 2. Nothing is going to be easy. 3. It takes time to get good. 4. The sooner you start the sooner you get. 5. Don’t stop until you do.

HOW TO BE A 10/10 MAN: • Learn seduction • Learn how to fight • Learn how to cook • Learn how to dress • Learn to lift weights • Learn to pray to God • Learn how to be alone • Learn how to eat healthy • Learn how to save money • Learn how to do self-care • Always pursue knowledge • Learn how to make money

When a woman agrees to meet you 1-1 for a date after a cold-approach… She has already considered sleeping with you, whether it happens or not and how soon depends on how you play your cards during the date

Hypergamy at its peak. This is Ines Garcia, a 21 years old influencer, she dumped her boyfriend of 5 years after footballer Lamine Yamal slid in her DMS Yes just like that she left her boyfriend and all the history they shared to be with Yamal. That's how ruthless women are, when a better offer comes, she'll often dump you, happens way more than you think. Now there are obviously some loyal women as long as you keep working on yourself and improving.

Most guys think money solves dating.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ It doesn't.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ I've coached entrepreneurs, engineers and even millionaires who built incredible careers but still couldn't attract the women they actually wanted.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ The reason has nothing to do with money.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ In this video I explain why dating is one of the highest leverage skills you can develop and how it improves your confidence, communication, business and leadership.⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Watch here: https://youtu.be/rtF1AujnZd8?si=fXjBdMK8NkOPLtlH

She slept with guys uglier than you She slept with guys poorer than you She slept with guys shorter than you She slept with guys dumber than you But most importantly, she slept with guys who had bigger b*lls than you and actually went up to her.

if you haven't yet, try to read this int he coming weeks when you have time

A reminder from Atomic Habits by James Clear: “New goals don't deliver new results. New lifestyles do. And a lifestyle is a process, not an outcome. For this reason, all of your energy should go into building better habits, not chasing better results.”

Best cities in Asia if you work online: - Da Nang - Bangkok - Ho Chi Minh - Kuala Lumpur - Uluwatu/Canggu (Bali) All these are also very dating-friendly.