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And I think the reason why us humans have failed and fucked up basically in determining personas is that the roles are kind of reversed. I mean gender as a whole should not be determining for the role you're playing in the society. But it is and it's the worst way possible. And now we have angry men in power who don't have a clue what tf they're doing and think expressing is some sort of sin and suppressed women being tired of all the ways they're deprived of meeting their potential.
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If we're talking biology patterns; I think to be a woman is to lead and pass down wisdom and to be a man is to support and express. If we're talking gender presentation spectrum I think masculinity represents boldness and femininity represents sharpness Idk if it makes any sense
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Also this is one of the main reasons I think gender is more like a piece of clothing rather than an identity
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Not only can I not find an aspect of being a woman that is not misogynistic but also when I look at anything that is being suppressed I somehow find a misogynistic perspective leading it
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It's actually disturbing when you really think about it even "transphobia" or queerphobia are rooted in misogyny. The features of queers or transgender people that are hated are always "womanly". The reason a gay man experiences homophobia is because he is "acting like a woman". The reason a lesbian is hated is because they're so mean and dry and it's probably because they aren't fulfilled like a woman with her man. The reason trans men and women get hate is because they either are rejecting their godgiven power and دودولِ طلا and becoming embarrassing or they're trying sooo hard to be a man it's probably because they want to feel powerful.
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Or Idk, be attractive. Be "wanted". Be something that can be chosen because of all the things you are bringing to the table.
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And it's weird to me because the definitions of being a man never seem to be so subjective or appearance-wised. To be a man always somehow means to have power and to be a woman almost somehow means to be of help or assist.
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Sometimes I feel like MAYBE the reason I can't find my self resonating with "womanhood" or even at times my "femininity" is that I can't seem to find an aspect of it that is not either obviously or internally rooted deep DEEP into any sort of misogyny
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I was thinking about how every combination of these three creates a whole personality of its own. For example I'm an always thank you person, an occasional I'm sorry person and a rarely I love you person; which sounds like a customer service email and it's either emotional maturity or emotional constipation. Object relations theorists would have the time of their lives.
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I was thinking about how every combination of these three creates a whole personality of its own. For example I'm an always thank you person, an occasional I'm sorry person and a rarely I love you person; which sounds like a customer service email and it's either emotional maturity or emotional constipation. Object relations theorists would have the time of their lives.
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From the big three
Are you more of a thank you person or an I'm sorry person or an I love you person?
