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10 WAYS TO AVOID CHEATING ON YOUR PARTNER Over the past week, issues about cheating has been on discus. People are discussing and arguing about the best way to treat their cheating partners. Some said, to divorce, others said, to cheat back and some are of the opinion that forgiveness is the best option. There's a saying that, "Prevention is better and cheaper than cure". So, it's better to avoid and prevent cheating on your partner than to start looking for a way to handle cheating. Many people have cheated on their partners unintentionally. They don't want to cheat but they fell into it unintentionally because they were careless and failed to be on the lookout. Here are 10 ways to avoid cheating on your partner... 1. Decide That You Will Not Cheat Until you decide to do or not do something, you haven't started. Decision is the starting point of all achievements. Without decision nothing can be done. So, you must make this decision. Even before you marry, you will have to make this decision that you are not going to cheat on your partner no matter what. Daniel in the land of Babylon purposed in his heart, he decided that he won't defile himself with the king's food. So, you too must decide not to cheat on your partner(Daniel 1:8). 2. Shut Your Eyes After you got married or entered a relationship, you will keep seeing people more beautiful, handsome, richer, endowed and romantic than your partner and if your eyes are still open, the chances are high that you will cheat. As a guy, shut your eyes against any other lady than your woman. As a lady, shut your eyes off every other man. King David saw a man's wife bathing and he lost all his senses. He slept with the woman and even kill the woman's husband! Close your eyes and look away(see 2 Sam 11:1-12; Job 31:1) 3. Avoid Sharing Your Problems With The Opposite Sex For Pity And Sympathy. When I was in the village, there was this woman that was an expert in sharing her problems with the aim of securing pity and sympathy from people and as well as cash. Whenever you see her, expect one complain or another. So, avoid sharing your problems with others especially the opposite sex for pity or sympathy. If it's not solution you're looking for, avoid the sharing stuff. Problems have a way of bonding people. You will become emotionally entangled. 4. Avoid Too Much Play With The Opposite Sex Cheating doesn't just happen, it starts little by little. Little play here and little play with the opposite sex and before you know it, emotions are developing to the point it becomes uncontrollable. Playing with the opposite sex while you're married or have a partner that you are in a relationship with is like when a lion and a goat is playing. You know what that means. Oga, that girl that whenever you see her, chemical reaction begins to take place in your body, the early you avoid her the better, the same is applicable to you, madam. You can't walk on fire and won't get burnt! 5. Limit Communication With The Opposite Sex Communication is the blood of relationship, without communication relationship suffers. Communication fosters intimacy and understanding in a relationship. It keeps the fire burning. So, limit communication with the opposite sex. When you don't have something really important to discus, avoid all those unnecessary discussions. It will lead to something else. 6. Be Committed And Devoted To Your Partner When you're committed and devoted to something, you will have little or no time for something else, it will take your time, energy and resources. So, be committed and devoted to your partner. When you're committed and devoted to your partner, you will have little or no time for someone else, you'll have time for your partner. Be Committed and devoted. 7. Think About The Consequences As a married woman, what do you think will happen if your husband should catch you while you're sleeping with another man? Ask yourself the same question as a man, what will happen if your woman should catch you cheating on her? Think about it.

Also, think about the effect your cheating will have on your partner. Think about how heartbroken, devastated and traumatized your partner will be. Think about the lost of trust and confidence your partner will have for you. Cheating can end your marriage. It can make your partner to commit suicide. You will lose the trust, love and confidence of your partner. Does cheating really worth all these? Think about it. 8. Avoid The Company Of Those That Don't Value Fidelity. Proverbs 13:20 says that, when you follow the wise, you'll become wise and when you will follow fools, you shall be destroyed. Who you follow determines what follows you. Who you company with determines what accompanies you. So, avoid the company of those that are not faithful to their partners, avoid those that don't respect their marital vows and and the sacredness of marriage. It's just a matter of time before you join them. Bad company corrupts good character. 9. Value What You Have When you don't value what you have, you will treat and abuse it. When you don't have value and respect for your partner, you will cheat on the person. What you value, you cherish, guide, protect and care for. If you value your partner, you will cherish him or her, you will care about his or her feelings. Place a premium value on your partner. 10. Love Your Partner Love is a strong force that can either compel you to do or not to do something. When you truly love your partner, you won't like to cheat on him or her. The love will constrain you from doing such(see 2 Corinthians 5:14-15). Let me stop here. If really you are serious about being a faithful partner, with these 10 points you are good to go.

KILLERS OF MARRIAGE 1 Laziness kills Marriage 2 Suspicion kills Marriage 3 Lack of trust kills marriage 4 Lack of mutual respect kills marriage 5 Unforgiveness, Bitterness, Hatred, Malice and anger kill marriage 6 Unnecessary Arguments kills marriage 7 Keeping Secrets from your Spouse kills marriage 8 Every form of Infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc) 9 Poor Communication kills marriage 10 Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect. 11 Relating more with your parents/family members than your spouse kills marriage 12 Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills marriage. 13 Nagging kills marriage 14 Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage 15 Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage 16 Being too independent minded kills marriage 17 LOVE for party, money, impulse buying and spending/partying, financial indiscipline kill marriage 18 Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or Siblings kills marriage 19 Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit, not praying together kills not only marriage but your life 20 Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage. 21 Always wearing a sad face and being Moody kills marriage. 22 FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage. 23 MALE CHAUVINISM kills marriage 24 Uncontrolled or hot Temperament, Anger kills marriage. 25 Not understanding your role and position , not taking responsibilty in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage. 26 Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional, financial and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage 27 When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage. 28 Lack of the Knowledge of & Obedience to the word of God kills marriage.

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EVERY HUSBAND SHOULD READ THIS. 1: You fail as a husband if you gives your parents and your siblings negative information against your wife. 2: You fail as husband if you watch your parents and your siblings bully and abuse your wife in every little thing 3: You fail as a husband if you do not know that you are the Chief security officer to your wife. 4: You fail as a husband if you easily tell your wife just because both of you have misunderstanding that the only thing that is bringing both of you together is because of the kids. Mr. You are a big failure as a husband, because children trained by both parents have a brighter identity. 5: You fail as husband, if you fail to understand that the only way to show your children love is by showing their mom love. 6: You are a sold failure as a husband if you believe your siblings lies against your wife and trust outsiders instead of your wife. Brother, you are playing with danger that may consume you. Sir, If you push that woman around and frustrated her even Satan will take note of what will happen to you. Don't disregard the calmness of a good wife in your life, because your life may end up in misery if you frustrate a good wife.