Reflections For Myself

Trust Allāh in everything. We find it difficult at hard times during our life to fully trust in Allāh ﷻ decree. However, no matter which way you put it, Allāh ﷻ is always and will always be the only reason anything happens to you. Allāh ﷻ has knowledge of the unseen! That alone should motivate us to only put our trust that Allāh ﷻ knows what is best for us. To attain the highest level of Iman, one must fully dissociate his ability to make anything happens and just fully submit to Allāh will and might. Once you do this, you will find the contentment in this life because deep down you know Allāh ﷻ is there a throughout every step. Du'ā' in Arabic: ‏اللهم إني اتبرع من حولي وقوة والتجأ إلى حولك وقوتك، اللهم أعني ولا تعني علي، انصرني ولا تنصر علي، وأهدني ويسر الهدى لي

The Ahkirah (Everlasting Life) Allah (ʿazza wa jall) says: وَلَلۡاٰخِرَۃُ خَیۡرٌ لَّکَ مِنَ الۡاُوۡلٰی ؕ And the ākhirah (hereafter) is certainly far better for you than this one. We should always view life and everything that happens around us from an ākhirah-centric lens. The ākhirah (hereafter) is eternal and infinite. This life is nothing in comparison to the hereafter. So when it feels like the world is collapsing on your shoulders and you can’t bear it anymore, think of the greater picture: this world is nothing. The ākhirah is everything.

“Life of the heart is in: فَحَيَاةُ الْقَلْبِ Constant remembrance (of Allāh), بِدَوَامِ الذِّكْرِ، Returning back to Allāh, وَالْإِنَابَةِ إِلَى اللَّهِ، And abandoning sins.” وَتَرْكِ الذُّنُوبِ [ابن القيم، مدارج السالكين بين منازل إياك نعبد وإياك نستعين ٣/٢٤٨]

لا تحمل هم الدنيا فإنها لله don’t carry the worry of this world for it belongs to Allāh ولا تحمل هم الرزق فإنه من الله don’t carry the worry of provision for it is from Allāh ولا تحمل هم المستقبل فإنه بيد الله don’t carry the worry of the future for it is in the hands of Allāh فقط احمل همًا واحدًا only carry one concern كيف تُرضي الله؟ how can you please Allāh? لأنك لو أرضيت الله because if you please Allāh رضي عنك He will be pleased with you وأرضاك please you وأغناك enrich you وكفاك and suffice you [ابن القيِّم رحمه الله] [@ huraayrah]

Never doubt Allāh’s love for you, no matter how much you have sinned, just go back with repentance

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Seek knowledge even if it is a little [Shaykh Abdus Salam al-Shuway'ir]

Do not burden your heart with grief; for it does not return a lost one, nor does it preserve what’s already existing. Fill your heart with what strengthens it of trust in Allāh, delegating the matter to Him, and turning away from turning to others, having good thoughts of Him, and having the certainty that what is best is in what He has chosen (for you), for that is the solace for those who are stricken by sadness, and a tranquility for the hearts of the believers.

Maymūn b. Mihrān said: “The servant (of Allāh) will not become pious until he is more severe in taking account of himself than the person is of his business partner.“ Based upon this it was said: ”al-nafs (ie: the soul) is like a treacherous business partner. If you do not take account of him, he will run away with all your wealth.” [ابن القيم، إغاثة اللهفان في مصايد الشيطان ط عالم الفوائد ١/١٣٣]

‎Life in this dunya is filled with tests and we will all be subjected these at one point or the other. As Allāh ﷻ says, ‎"And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to the patient ones." ‎[Al Qur'ān 2:155] ‎May we all succeed in our trials through tawakkul and ṣabr.

And Yaḥyá b. Muʿāḏ said: “The body becomes sick due to ailments, وَقَالَ يَحْيَى بْنُ مُعَاذٍ سَقَمُ الْجَسَدِ بِالأَوْجَاعِ and al-qulūb (ie: the hearts) become sick due to al-ḏunūb (ie: sins). وَسَقَمُ الْقُلُوبِ بِالذُّنُوبِ So just as the body does not find pleasure in eating while it is sick, فَكَمَا لَا يَجِدُ الْجَسَدُ لَذَّةَ الطَّعَامِ عِنْدَ سَقَمِهِ likewise al-qalb (ie: the heart) does not experience the sweetness of worship alongside al-ḏunūb.” فَكَذَلِكَ الْقَلْبُ لَا يَجِدُ حَلاوَةَ الْعِبَادَةِ مَعَ الذُّنُوبِ [ابن الجوزي، ذم الهوى ١/٦٨]

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Ibn Qayyim رحمه الله on giving ṣadaqah: Indeed ṣadaqah has a great effect in repelling different types of trials and tribulations, فإن للصدقة تأثيراً عجيباً في دفع أنواع البلاء even if the charity was given by a fājir (ie: an evil) or dhalim (ie: an oppressive person), rather even (if it was given) by a kāfir (ie: non-Muslim)! ولو كانت من فاجر أو من ظالم بل من كافر، Indeed Allah, The Most High, repels different types of trials and tribulations due to giving ṣadaqah. فإن الله تعالى يدفع بها عنه أنواعاً من البلاء، This is a matter which is well-known to the scholars and the general folk, وهذا أمر معلوم عند الناس خاصتهم وعامتهم، and the people on the earth can relate to it as they have experienced it. وأهل الأرض كلهم مقرون به لأنهم جربوه. [ابن القيم، الوابل الصيب من الكلم الطيب ١/٣١]

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Every one of us, no matter who you are, should develop a secret deed of goodness between you and Allāh ﷻ. Think of this very carefully; your secret deed between you and Allāh, no one knows it. Maybe every day you give a small charity to someone, maybe you say a good word, you might have read some Qur'ān on a daily basis… Some secret private deed between you and Allāh that you are so happy about, and that you continue doing against all odds and you say: “Allāh this is only for your sake.” Try and develop it. It’s something that will really help you spiritually and it will benefit you immensely and intensely.