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It’s funny how things never really turn out the way you thought they would. Reality is different from our expectations, and most of the time that doesn't really bother us.
When the unexpected happens, it's usually not an issue. We barely notice the difference between our expectations and reality, and we live our lives as if none of it mattered.
Then there are other times -- when our anticipation takes root and grows over months or years of waiting -- when real life pales in comparison to our fantasies. The more eager we grow, the more painful the experience is when it's not what we wanted.
That’s the issue with expectations: We usually overshoot them. We expect more than we're likely to get.
We aim for perfection, but we discover that reality isn't so different from the lives we've been living. Optimism is a wonderful thing until it blinds you.
It’s important to be optimistic, but it’s just as important to be realistic. It's necessary that we understand the statistical chances of one thing happening versus another.
The more you accept that there is always a chance that things won’t go the way that you think they will, the less likely you are to be caught off-guard when that happens.
You still love her but she loves someone else.
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It's like when you read a great book, you enter a world that is separate from where you are, but you relate to the characters and get lost in the pages. It makes you happy or sad. It makes you laugh and also cry. Films do that, but more directly.
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