SALAFI WOMEN (سلفيات)

If someone comes to you because he needs you, help him for Allah's sake when you are reasonably able to do so. If afterward he disappears, your reward did not disappear with him. If he fails to appreciate your kindness, what you did for Allaah has not been lost. And if he thinks that he merely “used” you, you may have walked away with something far greater than what he obtained: the reward of serving your Muslim brother and the hope that Allaah will increase you in khayr. At the same time, this does not mean allowing people to repeatedly exploit you, accepting injustice, or failing to establish reasonable boundaries. Rather, it means that when you willingly perform a permissible act of kindness, do not spoil your own heart afterward by constantly measuring what the other person gave you in return. The Lasting Benefit This sitting taught me something that has remained with me: People are different colors. Do not expect everyone to think like you, communicate like you, show gratitude like you, or possess the same strengths that you possess. Recognize people's deficiencies while recognizing your own. Be patient where patience is appropriate, advise where advice is needed, and do not allow another person's shortcomings to prevent you from seeking your own reward with Allaah. And remember the saying of the Messenger of Allaah ((ﷺ)) “A person is upon the religion of his close companion, so let each of you look at whom he takes as a close companion.” Sunan Abī Dāwūd (4833), Jāmiʿ at-Tirmidhī (2378) Choose good companionship, learn the different personalities of people, overlook what deserves to be overlooked, advise concerning what requires advice, and seek your reward from Allaah rather than making people's appreciation the measure of your good deeds. Sometimes the person you helped walks away thinking that he gained from you, while you walk away having gained something far greater from Allaah. Wr::🖊️ Abū Zakarriyah SaadiQ https://t.me/DawahFromYemenEng1

People’s Personalities Are Like Different Colors Some Are Brighter Than Others From a sitting with Shaykh Abū Muʿādh Hussein Al-Hatibee (حفظه الله) This is a small but tremendous benefit that has remained in my mind for years and has helped me understand how to deal with the different personalities we encounter among the brothers and those who call to goodness. Around 2021, while in Egypt, I attended a sitting with Shaykh Abū Muʿādh Hussein Al-Hatibee (حفظه الله). Two brothers from Canada were also with me one was visiting us, while the other lived in the same neighborhood as us. The Shaykh had come to Egypt for treatment for his family, and he graciously invited us to the place where he was staying, in an area on the other side of Cairo, near the pyramids. During that sitting, the discussion turned to people's different personalities, manners, temperaments, and ways of interacting with others. This included people involved in calling to the Sunnah and spreading khayr. The Shaykh gave a beautiful example: people are like different colors. Just as colors are not all the same some are bright, some dark, some soft upon the eyes and others more intense people likewise differ. Their personalities differ, their levels of patience differ, their strengths and weaknesses differ, and even the manner in which they convey goodness differs. Some people are naturally approachable and cooperative. They readily help others, listen to their problems, and fulfill their needs. Others may be excellent at teaching, delivering a khuṭbah, or conveying knowledge, yet they may struggle when dealing personally with people. Some have tremendous zeal when their īmān is strong, but when difficulties strike them or they become overwhelmed, they withdraw and find it difficult to interact with others. The lesson was not that we excuse every wrong characteristic. Rather, we should understand that people have deficiencies and learn to deal with them patiently and wisely. No caller to Allaah, student of knowledge, or ordinary Muslim is complete in every good characteristic. One person may naturally possess patience, while another must struggle with himself for years to develop it. When Someone Only Comes to You Because They Need Something There was another part of this benefit that especially remained with me. Sometimes you will encounter people who seem to approach you only when they need something. When you are useful to them, they are close to you. When your assistance fits their circumstances, they seek you out. Once their need is fulfilled, perhaps their interaction with you changes. A person may naturally feel: “He only used me for his own benefit.” But the Shaykh mentioned a perspective that changes how you look at such situations: if you fulfilled the need of your Muslim brother seeking the reward of Allaah, then in reality you are the one who gained. Perhaps he believes that he benefited from you and outwardly, he did but you sought something greater from Allaah. You helped your brother. You relieved a need. You performed an act of goodness. And you sought its reward from Allaah عز وجل. So why should you consider yourself the loser? Even if another person's intention toward you was merely worldly, your intention does not have to be worldly. His intention belongs to him, while your intention and your reward belong to you. This is something many people misunderstand. We sometimes measure relationships only according to what we receive back from people: “I helped him, but what did he do for me?” Yet the believer can look beyond this. If Allah enabled you to be a means of goodness for someone, then that itself is a blessing. The Prophet(( ﷺ)) said: “Allaah continues to aid the servant as long as the servant is aiding his brother.” Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim (2699) Therefore, fulfilling people's needs should not always be viewed as them taking something from you Sometimes Allaah has placed you in the position of being able to give. That is itself a tremendous favor.

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