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JUST LET HIM BE THE MAN... If lots of women will allow their men be the men in the marriage, no one will end up divorced. A lot of women marry men then turn them to women after marriage. They want him to talk like a woman, think like a woman, act like a woman, reason like a woman and end up a woman! Your husband can't! He is a man, always remember this and treat him as such! He is your king, your Lord and master of his universe! He is your husband, not your errand boy, you can't be sending him up and down! He has an ego that needs daily massage. He has a deep need to be respected through your body language, attitude and voice not just by kneeling down. He has a deep need to be listened to and obeyed. Even if you have an objection, do so respectfully. He has a deep need for sex (I don't know why lots of women hate to hear this truth, honestly, it baffles me). He loves to be admired. He longs for your support. He loves to hear you sing his praises. He wants good, quality food at the right time. He wants you to cherish him. He hates it when you flirt with other men (As in HATE!) He wants you to look good and in shape for him. He wants you to speak well of him before your friends, families and his friends. A woman may not need all these but a man does that's why he married you hoping you will meet all these need in marriage. Please, always remember you married a man and treat him as such. He will love you with all his heart, cherish you and you will have peace of mind and heart in marriage.

Handling imperfections in marriage is not the same as handling fake personality whom you got married to because you thought they were what you think they claimed they were. How would you handle a girl you married thinking she's a woman, only to discover after marriage that she's Bobrisky classmate with huge p*nis? I believe you will manage him or her until he/she turns to a full woman😃

Don't kill your spouse with baseless comparison, God did not create everyone with equal grace and strength; some are hyper intelligent and wise, while some are average and some are below average. It's inhuman therefore to compare your spouse with someone with higher grace, baseless comparison can demoralize your partner and make them lose their self-esteem and see themselves as inferior. Please stopped it now! Do you know why everyone who practice all the principles that made Dangote rich are not rich? That's because there is something Dangote has that everyone doesn't have. So please stop the comparison, encourage and motivate your partner to keep trying, don't frustrate them when they can't beat your expectations and targets, that is called understanding.

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FUNNY BUT TRUTH 15 FOOLISH HABITS OF A BABY WIFE 1. GOING TO SLEEP IN KIDS' OR SPARE BEDROOM OR SITTING ROOM WHEN THEY HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING : This is a sign of avoidance and unwillingness to resolve conflicts. A mature partner would stay and work through the issue, rather than running away from it. It's being childish. 2. TELLING HER HUSBAND AS NOT MAN ENOUGH: This is a form of emotional abuse and undermines the partner's self-esteem. A mature partner would communicate constructively about issues without personal attacks. Very few men can survive this injury. 3. "THERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO CAN MARRY ME WHEN I LEAVE THIS MARRIAGE": This is a threat and a form of emotional blackmail. A mature partner would address problems in the relationship directly and work towards a solution. 4. BEING QUICK TO GET angryY ABOUT EVERYTHING: Excessive anger and overreaction to minor issues is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would respond with more patience and understanding. 5. CAN'T JUST FORGIVE, KEEPS HURTS IN HIS OR HER HEART: Holding onto grudges and resentment is a barrier to healthy conflict resolution. A mature partner would be able to forgive and move forward. 6. ALWAYS BEING RIGHT , UNABLE TO ADMIT BEING WRONG : Lack of humility and unwillingness to compromise is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would be open to different perspectives and willing to acknowledge their own mistakes. 7. LOVING PARENTS AND SIBLINGS MORE THAN SPOUSE: This indicates a lack of emotional investment in the marriage and a failure to prioritize the spousal relationship. 8. FEELING ENTITLED TO EVERYTHING: A sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would have a more balanced view of the give and take in a relationship. 9. FIGHTING SPOUSE'S FAMILY DIRTY: Engaging in petty conflicts and disrespecting the spouse's family is a sign of immaturity. A mature partner would strive to maintain positive relationships with in-laws. 10. ISSUING THREATS OF DIVORCE , SEPARATION, OR VIOLENCE: These are manipulative and abusive tactics that have no place in a healthy, mature relationship. 11. THINKING THEY ARE TOO IMPORTANT IN THE LIFE OF THEIR SPOUSES: This indicates a lack of understanding of the importance of mutual respect and independence in a marriage. 12. BRAGGING ABOUT WHAT SHE IS DOING TO SUPPORT THE HUSBAND: This suggests a need for external validation and a lack of genuine concern for the partner's well-being. 13. GETTING MUTE ON THE HUSBAND JUST BECAUSE HIM LOOKED AT ANOTHER WOMAN AT THE MALL If she caught her husband looking at a woman and appreciating her looks when they were together at a shopping mall, she stops talking to her husband for months, stops cooking his favorite meal and can't even sleep on the same bed with him. 14. DARING HER HUSBAND TO GET ANOTHER WOMAN AS IF SHE DOESN'T CARE. Daring a man to get another woman is not only childish but dangerous, because not every husband is a believer. 15. RESENTING KIDS BECAUSE HUBBY HID THEM FROM HER When she discovers that her husband hid the fact that he had a child/children before meeting her, she immediately resents those kids. MARRIAGE IS NOT CHILD'S PLAY. Whether anyone likes it or not, your WEDDING will hold this year 2024 💍👰 https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va7trbB23n3c8z9bh840 After clicking the link. Press follow at the right corner and of your upper screen to see more updates on our channel

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*FOUR STAGES OF ELIMINATION IN LIFE*👇 1. At *60*, the workplace eliminates you. No matter how successful or powerful you were during your career, you'll return to being an ordinary person. So, don't cling to the mindset and sense of superiority from your past job, let go of your ego, or you might lose your sense of ease! 2. At *70*, society gradually eliminates you. The friends and colleagues you used to meet and socialize with become fewer, and hardly anyone recognizes you at your former workplace. Don't say, "I used to be..." or "I was once..." because the younger generation won't know you, and you mustn't feel uncomfortable about it! 3. At *80*, family slowly eliminates you. Even if you have many children and grandchildren, most of the time you'll be living with your spouse or by yourself. When your children visit occasionally, it's an expression of affection, so don't blame them for coming less often, as they're busy with their own lives! 4. At *90*, the Earth wants to eliminate you. Some of the people you knew have already departed forever. At this point, don't be sad or mournful, because this is the way of life, and everyone will eventually follow this path! *REMEMBER,* *1. the only thing that won't eliminate you eternally is God because at the end of our journey here on earth we shall all return to Him with accounts of how we lived our lives* *2. So, meet Him more,* *3. Communicate with Him more,* *4. Obey His orders, and* *5. Maintain your presence with Him* *Therefore, while our bodies are still capable, live life to the fullest! Worship God in truth and in spirit. And there will be no regrets living out our lives for Him!* Be blessed!

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