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PARENTS AND KIDS 👧👶 DAILY TIPS 1. Do not try to prove you’re smarter than they are. Be a little distracted at times, make mistakes, forget things. Let your child win sometimes. It’s important for them to learn how to win. 2. Do not belittle your children—by words, gestures, or hints. 3. Do not reproach them for past actions. 4. Do not hurt your children. Everyone needs protection. Choose your words very carefully. Help them envision the best version of themselves in the future. Your support should remind them of who they can become, not who they were. 5. Do not shame your children. A single careless word can kill their spirit. No matter what they do, try to soften it, cover it up, as if it never happened. 6. Do not abandon your children. 7. Do not lose your temper. Anger and malice destroy lives. Mindshift

Always remember: dwelling on what's wrong is the easiest, while thinking about what's good takes real effort. It’s one of those things that disciplines and trains you. So train your mind to dwell on pleasant scents, the touch of silk, the patter of raindrops, the curve of a flower in a bouquet, and the serenity of dawn. Mindshift

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TRUTH You already have it all. You're already the richest person on Earth. You have life, all your senses, and your arms and legs to enjoy it. Live it! Mindshift

8 simple, yet wise tips 1️⃣ Happiness is like a kiss: to enjoy it, you need to share it with someone. 2️⃣ People think they'll be happy if they move somewhere else, but it turns out: wherever you go, you take yourself with you. 3️⃣ Cherish the people who show up when things are hard for you, not when they're the ones suffering. 4️⃣ Don't silence the people who open your eyes. 5️⃣ There's little point in trying to help people who won't help themselves. You can't make someone climb a staircase if they don't want to. 6️⃣ Everyone makes mistakes. Owning up to a mistake is admirable. Asking for forgiveness is brave. Rebuilding a relationship is a sign of strength. 7️⃣ Be bold if you want to change something. Be patient if changing it isn't possible. And be wise enough to know when courage is needed and when patience is. 8️⃣ Never regret what you did if you were truly happy in that moment. Mindshift

Your opinion of yourself matters Stop chasing other people's approval and stop diminishing your own desires and thoughts to please them. There will always be people who want to talk you out of what you like—new ideas, desires, and aspirations. Choose your own goals, or they risk being forgotten under someone else's opinion. You'll become the best version of yourself, because what you think of yourself matters. ❤️🕊 Mindshift

In this world, it’s important to love and to cherish... ✔️Love your family, love quiet home evenings with a cup of tea, love any season for the unique charm it brings. ✔️Love any weather, whether rain or snow, blazing sun or wind. ✔️Love the morning for the hope of something new, the day for action, the evening for reflection, and the night for the chance to contemplate... ✔️Love the world around you with its beauty and flaws, because no vivid landscape would be the same without a touch of gray and black, no sweetness would taste as sweet unless you’ve tasted its bitterness. ✔️Love life, love people, love every minute, because each one is a moment. ✔️Love and cherish. And the world will give back its best—the things that each of us loves and protects... Mindshift

If someone doesn't write to you, they simply don't want to. In a bar, at home, at a party full of guests and relatives, anywhere and in any mood, they'll find a moment to send a few words to a familiar contact. But only if they truly need and want to talk. Alcohol, chores, the weather, or a busy life—none of that changes anything. It's simpler: people write when they need to. They write when they miss you. You don't need to remind them that you exist. Don't make excuses for anyone. Value yourself. Mindshift

5 mistakes that keep a woman from finding a partner ☑️ Unrealistic expectations You don’t need to chase perfection—look for someone who’s a good fit. He doesn’t have to be ultra-rich or handsome. What matters is mutual understanding, shared interests, and aligned goals. ☑️ Losing your femininity Not all women devote enough time to their appearance, figure, or how they carry themselves. ☑️ Insecurity, low self-esteem When you don’t love yourself, it shows up subconsciously and triggers the wrong reactions from others. ☑️ Obsession with career These women have plenty of admirers, but relationships don’t last long. They’re married to their work. ☑️ Negative experiences If she’s been burned once, she becomes cautious and subconsciously pushes guys away. Mindshift

Don’t chase or try to hold someone or something in your life. It only leads to suffering. Look around—nature is incredibly wise. Everything around us is made of elements. Try to grasp fire, and you’ll burn. The wind, the water, or the earth—and they’ll slip right through your fingers. Everything is born free. Your task is simply to create the conditions for that fire to burn brighter, not to trap it, or it will devour you. Freedom is what matters. Give the people and the things around you freedom—don’t hold them, don’t cling to them or to your ideas about them. And then you’ll create the most comfortable conditions for your own free life and for the lives of those around you. People will want to be with you, because you offer them the most important thing—freedom 💟 Mindshift

🌼 6 cheerful quotes from life: 1. Don’t forget to throw out the trash ... from the bucket ... from your head ... from life. 2. When things aren’t going well — just don’t drag them along. 3. The best teacher in life is experience. It comes at a price, but it explains things clearly. 4. If a mistake can be fixed, it means you haven’t really made one yet. 5. Thanks to the people who entered my life and made it wonderful. And also to those who stepped out and made it even better. 6. There will always be someone who doesn’t like what you do. That’s normal. After all, only kittens please everyone. 💕Wishing you good vibes and a great weekend! Mindshift

TRUTH Choose happiness in every moment of life... Life isn't a sketch or a draft!💫 Mindshift

I won't be a bad person if ⬇️⬇️⬇️ - I'll say no - I'll walk away quietly - I won't be able to do something - I'll do it differently - I'll stop living up to other people's expectations - I'll make a decision that others won't like - I'll make a mistake Mindshift

Love has two barriers: circumstances and fears. All too often we lack the courage to step over the stones of the past and to overcome the doubts of the present. Mindshift

I need someone unbelievably crazy. Someone who mirrors me. Someone who will prove things to me, order me around, judge me, challenge me, and not listen to my opinion. I want an incredibly strong man. I want the one who’s stronger than me. I want you—with your quirks, with your bad moods, a smug smile, strong yet gentle hands, late-night conversations, grudges and jealousy, kisses and promises. I don’t want the guy who says “I love you” all day; I want the one who will someday say: “And you’re exactly what I need: emotional and funny, serious and childishly naive… You’re simply indispensable to me.” Mindshift

Osho 1. People take everything so seriously that it becomes a burden for them. Learn to laugh more. 2. Every action yields an immediate result. Just stay vigilant and observe. A mature person is the one who has watched himself and found what is right and wrong for him; what is good and what is bad. And because of what he found in himself, he has enormous authority: even if the whole world says something else, nothing changes for him. 3. We are all unique. Never ask anyone what is right or wrong. Life is an experiment, in the process of which one should uncover what is right and what is wrong. 4. There are moments when God comes and knocks at your door. This is love—God knocking at your door. Through a woman, through a man, through a child, through love, through a flower, through sunset or sunrise… God can knock in millions of different ways. Mindshift

WHAT'S SWEETER: THE PROCESS OR THE RESULT? Right now, all of you will say the result... and you're wrong. Why? What's the problem? The habit of valuing the end over the journey is just another collective assumption. The truth is, the result is only a moment. The process can take years. Psychologists say it’s the PROCESS that allows us to be ourselves, feel connected, and truly experience happiness. That’s why people at the moment of triumph—who should be celebrating—often feel sad or even panicked. There it is, the moment has arrived... Why don’t I feel joy? Mindshift

Why do people break up? It’s understandable when love fades, but what about when two people love each other, burn with desire, and make plans for the future—only to part ways? At some point they can’t agree over something silly, can’t concede on a point, and a small conflict escalates into a quarrel. After all, almost everything can be resolved, a compromise found. So why do they let go when they love? Why do they lose each other? Mindshift

Wisdom of the day✨ Great happiness doesn't come all at once... Everything in this world must be earned... Only then do the seeds of happiness sprout, when you know how to cherish the small things. Mindshift

Body Language: Actions Speak Louder Than Words! What your hand positions mean in a conversation: 👉🏻 Open palms – the person is speaking to you honestly and openly; 👉🏻 If someone hides their hands during a conversation – they’re not telling the truth, trying to hide something; 👉🏻 Rubbing their palms together – signals anticipation of a positive outcome in a given situation; 👉🏻 Interlaced fingers – this gesture indicates disappointment and a desire to hide a negative attitude toward the situation; 👉🏻 Hands in a "house" shape – signals a confident or know-it-all stance; 👉🏻 Hands behind the back – seen as a sign of self-confidence with a sense of superiority over others; 👉🏻 Hands clasped behind the back with wrists clasped – indicates the person is upset and trying to pull themselves together. Mindshift