Our Side of the Story

I'll be writing about what this year has taught me not about how bad it was but the pleasant part of it😊 Before I do that I'd kindly ask you guys to let me know what this year has taught you, not mandatory💜

This year hasn't been easy for any of us and through these hardships it taught us well I believe! I hope and pray the coming new year brings Joy and healing to each and everyone of us😊 🌼Happy New Year's Eve Fam🌼

Good afternoon💜

Sleep well fam, hope we see tomorrow💜

Good Morning🌺🌤 I hope you guys are okay, I'm fine too don't worry😅 I'll try my best not to vanish on you guys from now on. Love yourself the way you are! You're good enough and don't let anything else tell you otherwise! Have a beautiful day💜

Say Hello! Yeabsira Fikru, @yeabfikru Cofounder, senior editor and writer She told us her favorite quote and why she focuses on mental health. @AYMIND

"You would rather find purpose than a job or career ... When God has something for you, it doesn't matter who stands against it" ~ Chadwick #WakandaForever @coffeetalktable

Why do we bully people? Why do we laugh at them? We know it's hard if the same thing happened to us. Why do we add suffering ...multiplying it, everyday ...እዛ ድድ ማስጫ ላይ ቁጭ ብለን ፣ በ group ተሰብስበን ሰው እያማን ፣ ያ ልጅ ሲመጣ 'ሹፋት ይሄን "እዚጋ አስቀያሚ word" ..who are we?* Are we the people we say we are? It didn't came from the air did it, this behavior????? It's who we are. We are bad to. Evil. Don't make the Devil ተጠያቂ people, it's you... don't project it on some image... that Scary, vampire like(do you see the Blood on his lips, sensuous evil looking Eyes👹)... it's a lie.. "a lie a lie a lie a lie a lie a lie"... We should observe our Minds. Ethiopian Minds. We could learn a lot from Children and Mothers. Hehe My Utopia is ruled by an Old Wise Woman... 💀' but Ethiopian Mothers talk about people around ጀበና ........👀, it's in our nature,..' but we have a choice, becoming conscious of what We do.... asking 'if this thing happened to me, would i feel good if people bully me and laugh at me????????' It hurts yow, ....yea you are enjoying yourself, ..but you're also creating Hell for someone. Can't you be Happy without hurting Someone???

Trust and fear can't tolerate each other! I've told you before that change doesn't come miraculously but with trusting the process. And another tip I'm going to add is if you're trusting the process or if you believe you are, get the fear of going back to the old you out of your system. If you're trusting the process then give it your whole, fear won't do you any good it just prevents the change from happening. This is what I've learnt this week, I'm not trusting the process enough. And fear is keeping me from doing that. I'm genuinely happy most of you had a good week, hoping you'll stay positive. And for the one's who had a rough one, you got this okay? It'll be alright😊 and sleep well! Sincerely yours Debbie💜 #LessonOfTheWeek @OurSideOfTheStory

So I read this quote a while ago that said something like "Drugs don't give you happiness, they just borrow it from later". That should shake something in you, especially if you're trying to cope with the things in your life through means like alcohol, smoking things, or even binge watching movies, if that's your thing. You will feel better in that moment. Guaranteed. But you will fell worse than you did at the start as all the thoughts and feelings basically come rushing back, almost racing over each other, and you will end up in a place worse than before. Trust me. Look, I know things are always easier said than done, believe me, but if you've read Lecrae's "Unashamed" you would know the importance of dealing with things face to face, and how much opening up the doors of your past, your scars and dealing with them in every way you know can solve things The more you hold it back, the more you resist, it'll be like a cracking, breaking dam holding strong river water. It'll keep pushing and adding and adding and adding......and will explode and do much more damage than it wiuld have if it had been focused on and let out even though it would take work and time and effort. Do. Not. Use. Painkillers for your heartaches and wounds in life. Find solutions, ones that will last and leave you healthy at least one step better than before. Don't use things that will make you feel better for a little while but don't change a single thing for you, and possibly hurt you. We have so many resources these days and google what you're feeling, talk to those around you....I'm just saying you'll find a resource somewhere. I believe in you, and I know you have the strength in you to take baby steps. You wanna know how I know? You've been reading this whole thing this far. Be encouraged. ~ anonymousme🧡

Good night fam💜

Posted a little I know these were the one's I've been listening to that's why. Hope you were okay today and have a good sleep too💜