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The tongue has no bones, but it is strong enough to break a heart. So be careful with your words.
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"You’ll never find anyone like me" they said.
"That is the whole point. Don't worry, I’ll never look for anyone like you again,” I replied.
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“You become what you hate”
Hech e’tibor berganmisiz, hayotda birovning biror odati yoki xatosini qattiq qoralab, “Men hech qachon bunday qilmayman”, desak, vaqt o‘tib aynan o‘sha ish bilan o‘zimiz ham sinalib qolamiz. Go‘yo hayot bizni aynan o‘sha narsa bilan sinayotgandek...Buning sababi shundaki, biz eng ko‘p qoralagan narsalarimiz haqida ham ko‘p o‘ylaymiz. Biror kishining xatosidan nafratlanib, uni hukm qilganimiz sari, o‘zimizni undan mutlaqo farqli deb bilib qo‘yishimiz mumkin. Ammo inson o‘zini har qanday holatdan ustun qo‘yib yubormasligi kerak. Sevgi insonni yaxshi tomonga o‘zgartirishi mumkin bo‘lganidek, kuchli nafrat ham insonning qalbini o‘zi yomon ko‘rgan narsaga haddan tashqari bog‘lab qo‘yishi mumkin. Shuning uchun boshqalarni hukm qilishdan, kibrdan va haddan ortiq nafratlanishdan uzoq bo‘laylik. Chunki bugun kamsitib, “Men hech qachon bunday qilmayman”, degan insonimizning sinovi bilan ertaga o‘zimiz ham sinalishimiz hech gap emas.
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Wallahi, hech tushunmadim, ey odam… Sen uchun bir insonning umidini uyg‘otib, uni shunchalar umidvor qilib qo‘yish yaxshimi? Hatto Rasululloh ﷺ bu haqida ogohlantirgan bo‘lsalar ham-a?Yoki faqat men birovga umid berib qo‘yishdan qo‘rqamanmi? Balki bu hisni o‘zim his qilib ko‘rganim uchundir-a? Balki sen hech qachon bunday hisni his qilib ko‘rmagandirsan?Unday qilma, maylimi?
Whatever… nima qilsang ham, qadar eng yaxshi hisob-kitob. Bugun birovning qalbida qoldirganing hisni ertaga o‘zing ham his qilib qolishing mumkin.
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-are you struggling?
"Verily, with hardship comes ease." [94:5-6]
-does everything feel too difficult?
"And We shall make things easy for you." [87:8]
"Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear." [2:286]
-do you feel lonely and forgotten?
"Your Lord has not taken leave of you, nor has He detested [you]." [93:3]
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Saw a quote that said:
“A lot of people struggle with sleep because sleep requires peace.”
I felt that.
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Allah gives us gifts, but then we often become dependent on these gifts, instead of Him. When He gives us money, we depend on the money - not Him. When He gives us people, we depend on people - not Him. When He gives us status and power, we depend on and become distracted by these things. When Allah gives us health, we become deceived and think we will never die.
It's deep...
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You think you’re giving just flowers. Nah, bro. What you don’t realize is that you’re creating dozens of photos, countless smiles, and a memory that stays long after the flowers fade.
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"Berganida shukr, olganida sabr"Yaqinda bir voqea sodir bo‘ldi. Qurbonlik qilinganda amakimlar tomonidan bizga 5 kg go‘sht berilgan edi. Onam esa: “Muzi tushgach, chiroyli bir ovqat qilamiz”, deb uni muzxonadan olib qo‘ygan edilar. Ammo u go‘sht bizga nasib qilmagan ekan…
O‘sha kuni uydagilar ishga ketishayotganda, xayolim parishonligidan chiqindi paketlari qatorida o‘sha 5 kg go‘sht solingan paketni ham qo‘shib berib yuboribman. Ular ham ichida go‘sht borligini bilmay, chiqindilar bilan birga tashlab ketishgan. Eng qizig‘i, oradan ikki daqiqa ham o‘tmay, onam qo‘ng‘iroq qilib go‘shtni so‘rab qoldilar. Oshxonaga yugurib chiqsam go‘sht yo‘q.Tezgina ro‘molimni o‘rab, chiqindi tashlanadigan joyga yugurdim. Borsam, u yerda ishchilar chiqindilarni ajratishayotgan ekan. — Kechirasiz, hozirgina shu yerga ikkita paket chiqindi tashlab ketishgandi. Bittasiga adashib 5 kg go‘shtni ham qo‘shib yuboribman. Ko‘rmadingizmi? — deb so‘radim. U yerdagi bolalar shoshilib: — Yo‘q, chiqmadi, — deyishdi-da, ichkariga kirib ketishdi. Aslida go‘shtni qaytarib olib, uyga olib kirib ovqat qilish niyatim yo‘q edi. Shunchaki nima bo‘lganini bilmoqchi edim. Ammo uydagilar go‘sht borligini bilmay tashlab yuborgan bo‘lsalar-da, paketlarni men berganim uchun e’tiborsizligim sabab ancha gap eshitdim. O‘shandan buyon shu voqea haqida ko‘p o‘yladim. Balki o‘sha go‘sht Allohning taqdiri bilan u yerdagi muhtoj insonlarga nasib qilgandir? Balki u aslida bizning rizqimiz emas, boshqa bir insonning nasibasi bo‘lgandir? Avval jahli chiqqan uydagilar ham keyinroq vaziyatni tushunib: "Balki bu bizning nasibamiz emasdir"-deyishdi. Buni aniq bilmaymiz. Lekin bir narsani bilamiz: Allohning taqdirida hikmat bor. Rizqni beruvchi ham, oluvchi ham Allohdir. Bizga esa berganida shukr, olganida sabr qilish qoladi.
