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What’s with the Raafidhi & Ikhwani obsession of Sunni buildings?? At a time when missiles are being fired toward the Haramain and even calls are made to tear down its surrounding structures, Suroori Masaajid like Masjid Humera in London are fixated on labelling endowment properties as ‘worldly distractions’. Dispite knowing the clock tower and similar buildings are waqf, established to serve pilgrims catering for a variety of restaurants and rest places that make life easy and support the sanctuary, not ‘merely’ private luxury. We should be careful not to reduce complex government buildings to slogans, while real threats go unaddressed. May Allah guide every hidden envier of Ahl al-Sunnah and the Muslim lands, and expose every attempt to demonize Muslim countries—even when such rhetoric extends to the Haramain.

Tonight will be our first lesson on Thalāthah al-Uṣūl. Everyone is encouraged to attend with a copy of the matn, along with a notebook and pen to take notes. The sisters’ section downstairs will be open from 6:45pm, in shā’ Allāh.

New Class | Fridays ----------------------------------- Masjid As-Sahabah 295-297 Haggerston Rd London E8 4EN 🌐 masjidsahabah.org

Engraving on Stone 〰️〰️〰️〰️ ​Do not let your children associate with the children of ill-mannered people, for in doing so, they will adopt their bad habits, and this will destroy what they have learned. ​🌼 The poet says: The child remembers what is imparted to him and does not forget it, for his heart is like a pure jewel. So engrave upon his heart whatever knowledge you wish, and he will bring it forth complete from his memory. ​The child's mind is empty, open to everything, ​As the saying goes: "Engraving in youth is like engraving on stone."

​🖇️ Sheikhah Umm Abdullah Al-Wadaiya - My Advice to Women, p. 81

⚠️ Are You Unwittingly Destroying Your Child’s Personality While Thinking You’re Raising Them? ​Not all of a child's wounds are visible on the outside. Some live deep within, growing silently alongside them... ​It might be a word said in a moment of anger, a casual comparison, or mockery in front of others—something you forgot, but they never did. ​You may not see the impact today, but children construct their self-image based on the way you view them. ​10 Behaviors That Can Subtly Undermine Your Child’s Confidence: ➊ Excessive Control: Making every choice for them strips away their chance to learn decision-making and personal responsibility. ➋ Comparison: "Look at your brother... why can't you be like him?" It may seem like a way to motivate, but in the child's heart, it is a painful message: I am not enough. ➌ Dredging Up Past Mistakes: Reminding them of old failures teaches them to define themselves by their worst moments rather than learning how to move past them. ➍ Blame and Threats: "Be ashamed of yourself! I will punish you! You are always like this!" Discipline does not require humiliating the child to teach them; it requires clear boundaries and calm guidance. ➎ Hurtful Labels: Calling a child "lazy" or "stupid" conditions them to believe those flaws are a core part of their identity. ➏ Burdening Them with Adult Problems: Don't burden them with adult problems. Do not let your child feel that they are the cause of family conflicts or the source of its exhaustion. They are a child, and are not responsible for carrying the worries of adults. ➐ Overindulgence: Doing everything for him out of love may seem tender, but it may deprive him of one of the most important gifts of upbringing: self-reliance. ➑ Raising Them in Fear: Framing the world as dangerous and errors as catastrophes makes children afraid to try anything new. ➒ Violence and Shouting: Physical discipline and yelling may force temporary compliance, but they teach fear rather than understanding. ➊⓿ Public Humiliation: Correcting a child in front of others damages their self-worth. Correct mistakes in private, and praise them in public. 🌱 And remember: Your child doesn't need a perfect mother... They need a mother who knows how to apologize when she makes a mistake, how to correct without humiliating, and how to set boundaries without breaking the heart. Do not raise your child to fear you, but raise them to trust you Do not make your goal simply to have an obedient child... But make him righteous, confident, responsible, capable of making decisions, and strong in the face of life's trials.

Masjid As-Sahabah 295-297 Haggerston Rd London E8 4EN

Today in sha Allah For both brothers and sisters

A good benefit i came across; They say Adab is of 3 types; 1. Adab with Allah 2. Adab with Yourself 3. Adab With the People These types had been taken from the Hadith of Muadh Ibn Jabal رضي الله عنه where it was said that; the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Have taqwa (fear) of Allah wherever you may be, (Adab with Allah) and follow up a bad deed with a good deed which will wipe it out, (Adab with Yourself) and behave well towards the people. “ (Adab with the people) Hadith 18, 40 Hadith an-Nawawi You can find a detailed explanation of this in sheikh Saleh Al Fawzan Sharh of Arbaeen an Nawawi

New Class | Tuesdays ------------------------------------- Masjid As-Sahabah 295-297 Haggerston Rd London E8 4EN 🌐 masjidsahabah.org

Alhamdulillah, this class is now open to sisters. Sisters are warmly welcome to attend. You will have your own teachers downstairs to learn from and read to, in shā’ Allāh.

Class is live https://imasjidlive.co.uk/masjidsahabah

This lesson starts tonight, after the Sunnah prayer of Maghrib in shā’ Allāh. Sisters are welcome to attend in the downstairs sisters’ area.

This lesson starts tonight, after the Sunnah prayer of Maghrib in shā’ Allāh. Sisters are welcome to attend in the downstairs sisters’ area.

And now there was one haha

We only have 2 Sarf Notebooks left. Great to use if you are attending this lesson⬆️ 🛒Purchase at Www.knowledgeknotes.com T.me/knowledgeknotes