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there is no such thing as despite their beliefs , they will always judge you which sucks. however, i understand how hard it is to find other queer people or a community that you fit in irl which is why i suggested the online part, i am not sure why it hasn't worked out for you but try joining more communities with people who share similar interests , it helps as a conversation starter , i myself haven't gotten an actual friend group online or irl until i turned 17 or so , it could come late , later but it happens really
- الرساله ؛ I tried to make friends irl regardless of their beliefs but I couldn't fit in and online friendships just die instantly
i was lucky enough to having met another trans atheist irl and also another queer atheist , their presence has helped me wonderfully
but also knowing that there are other people who go through the same shit as you helps to a certain degree , online or irl
sometimes hobbies work as an outlet to cope and ignore your struggles as well but i wouldn't count on it tbf
i can't dress the way i want or live however i want but i do small adjustments to my style to try and at the very least feel a tiny bit comfortable with myself, could be as small as pins on a bag
other way is creating a space or entering a welcoming, similar spaces online , it may not work as well but at least you can be yourself somewhere , share beliefs with people who share a similar mindset and such , it works , somewhat helps
but either way, what i do to 'cope' is mostly trying to create a space for myself even when there is none irl , i have queer friends that i am out to and can be myself with, although not many but one other friend who gets how much i, we, struggle is more than enough for me
- الرساله ؛ Can you guys talk about how to cope with living in an overly religious city while being queer or an atheist
