Chadcension

If you really want to find what you want to do in life, What you are meant to do, What you NEED to do, What your PURPOSE is, Rhat one thing that makes “women” secondary… Because that’s what every man hopes for deep down, something that allow him to stop worrying about women, And the truth is, You don’t find it. You ACTION your way into it FINDING you. You can’t sit in your room & think your way to purpose. You can’t plan your life like a checklist. Nobody has ever found their purpose RATIONALLY. It always found them out of nowhere, they couldn’t have logically guessed they would be ever doing it. So that means, You can’t find it sitting and doing nothing. You also can’t find it watch youtube videos on “how to find my purpose”. You will only find your purpose through living LIFE with INTENSITY. You have to create some pressure. You have to break something inside you. You have to go so fast that speed stops existing. You have to change your patterns and behavior. You will never find your purpose on the first day of intensity. It’s hidden behind consistent chaos... Behind PLAYING. You want to know what you’re built for? Then go do whatever the fvck you feel like doing at least one day of the week. - You feel like climbing a mountain? Go. - You feel like starting a YouTube channel? Start. - You want to build something? Try it. - You want to play guitar in public? Go embarrass yourself. Each of these is a LAYER than when you peel it back, will help you reach closer to the core. Men suppress themselves so much these days. They are living very tight, very depressed. Life is an onion. You peel the layers through action. Through trying things.. And every layer you shed gets you one step closer to clarity. There’s no shortcut. There’s no “aha” moment while journaling on your couch. And here’s the real magic: One day you’ll hit something. Something will CLICK. And the moment it does? Everything else becomes secondary. The women. The fame. The distractions. Even your own self-doubt. Because you’ll know: “This is what I want to be doing with my fvcking life” That is true FREEDOM.

Being honest and transparent is #1 in dating and socializing. There are literally no downsides and only upsides. It leads to trust and it's incredibly charismatic, even more so if you add on the flair of attractive communication. Being kind and strong are tied for #2. Strength without kindness is not actually strength, and kindness without strength is not actually kindness. They are twins. Distinct, but intertwined.

A healthy relationship balances between the over communication of a couple who weaponizes therapy talk and, The under communication of a couple who can't communicate their emotions at all. Too much therapy talk leads to everyone getting too sensitive over every little thing and slowly trying to compete for power through weird methods. Too little communication is either people bottling their emotions to not appear weird/weak OR being too afraid to speak up because of the arguments that will follow. There are times when you really should get sensitive over small things, like someone's tone or mood lately, All because if it's upsetting you, then there's something deeper going and you need to pull on the emotional threads until you find the source and you can't–there if you don't search for it. But you can't do it too much where you're constantly policing each other or being a baby. As you calibrate between these extremes you will be able to recognize when you're doing it right... Because things will be really, really, really good. Do it correctly and you'll have a relationship more peaceful and loving than you've ever seen in your life. You'll look at other couples and wonder how they ever stay together because they're so chronically miserable and also compare this relationship to your previous ones and feel the same way about you and your ex's.

MAKE MORE FEMALE FRIENDS. Nothing is more attractive than preselection... “Pussy attracts more pussy” When she sees you around other women, she can make 2 of many interpretations: 1/ Women like to be around you = good and fun vibes + has value. 2/ Women trust you = you are safe (not a creep). This is why having female friends in important. The key? You FRIENDZONE her, Not the other way around. If you meet a girl who is fine but not up to your sexual standards? Put her in the friendzone & use her to GAME other women. Women beside you in real life is the online equivalent of a pet dog in a tinder profile picture. IRRESISTIBLE.

#AskChad “I’d say, topics like how to balance socializing, going out with women etc while still staying in excellent shape and still performing at a high level in business/career, honestly find it harder to focus when I went out the night before, so it feels like I'm either sacrificing work or time spent with women” In my experience, You must prioritize, a single thing at a TIME. You cannot be an ACE at everything. At least, not in a fulfilling way. Like you said, you find it harder to focus when you went out the night before, & it’s true. There is a Cost to Everything. You’re either Depositing or Withdrawing from your Future Success Account at all times. What I like to do is set up my evenings in a way that doesn’t take a huge toll on tomorrow while still getting me what I want today. My “usual” place where I know everyone & everyone knows me, music as per my taste: Jazz. Pretty girls and close brothers. What I’ve found to help me function at Elite Levels in all Fields is Having ANCHORS. Different Scents for different tasks:- When I’m sitting down to work, I apply a certain scent, every single time. When I’m going out to party, I apply a certain scent, every single time. When I’m winding down & meditating, I apply a certain scent every single time. To go the extra level, play a certain kind of music every time for each different occasion. In fact, having a “Uniform” works superb as well... I’m not telling you to wear the exact same thing when you go out (or do any thing). I’m telling you to have a piece of clothing or an accessory that “Activates” your spectacular self. The key is to remember to NEVER do anything else when you wear that uniform. If you’re partying? Party like crazy. Working? Tunnel vision 🐺

#AskChad Q/ Yo I also need some advice, I find myself sometimes wandering on porn and +18 stuff, I got my girlfriend already and idk what happens that I have this impulse of wanting to hook up on other girls See porn is a poison, which is specifically designed to fry your dopamine receptors and to keep you in a state of low-value constant distraction. And when you start feeding your brain a constant stream of fake variety, You’re only programming yourself to always crave the next quick hit, which is why you’re looking at your girlfriend and feeling UNSATISFIED. I also agree that the urge to seek variety is natural male masculine biology, But when it’s fueled by pixel-chasing, it only becomes a sickness that completely drains your masculine power + focus, Which only degrades your own life factors from your mission–daily work, focus, love etc. You are only leaking energy through Porn. Every time you go onto those sites, you are withdrawing from your masculine energy account to buy a temporary, useless illusions. The solution is to cut the porn, and to look into yourself, seek inside what you actually want from yourself, if being a normal weak man what you want, let it be, cause that's the only result you'll get by doing this, If you want to be a charming fucking badass, domination life, purpose, girl & your whole LIFE, If you want to be a man of high value to you self and yours loved one's, you have to master your FOCUS, To choose what get's your energy and what not. Cut the porn completely, re-direct that raw sexual energy into the gym, your career, or dominating in the bedroom with your GIRL. You have to reclaim your frame and protect your energy before you destroy a good relationship for cheap dopamine 🤷‍♂️ Choose to be a wolve, not a sheep 🐺

Being honest and transparent is #1 in dating and socializing. There are literally no downsides and only upsides. It leads to trust and it's incredibly charismatic, even more so if you add on the flair of attractive communication. Being kind and strong are tied for #2. Strength without kindness is not actually strength, and kindness without strength is not actually kindness. They are twins. Distinct, but intertwined.

#AskChac: Q/ You said being well known in small circles is better than being famous, also you said you don’t recommend becoming famous. Could you explain why please? Yes, I don’t recommend being Famous. People “think” they want fame but what they really want is to have options with Women, Friends, and Opportunities TO LIVE A FUN LIFE. Does Fame Help? 100% But it comes at a COST. A HUGE COST in my opinion. Your Personal Life and Privacy Disappears. Everyone wants something from You. The “High” lasts for a while but disappears shortly after. I am not famous. So I am speaking from experience of some friends who are Famous. Some People Can Take to Fame like Fish to Water. I don’t know if you are that Person... You don’t even know if you are that Person. Being Well known in Small Circles, However, gets you the SAME OUTCOME: You have access to experiences, to people, You always “have a guy for xyz”, You meet beautiful women from those small “influential” circles. Basically everything you can get from Fame (except for the “fame high”). My Advice? Get Well Known in Small Circles. (learn game) If you don’t like it and want more? You can Become Famous (It’s really not that hard).

#AskChad: Q/ How to develop a belief that you are better than other dudes? I don’t mean in a toxic way but i’ve observed that dudes that believe themselves to be the best(even if they are not) tend to do better in all areas including women, money etc. Another reat question. Self belief is something which only comes from Two Things: 1) Self Image. 2) Competence. Point 2 is pretty straightforward. Competence comes from Positive Reference experiences. You don’t need the big wins straight away, but even noting down small wins like, “That girl responded well to you” or “I made a new friend today” will give you belief in yourself. Point #1 is the real SAUCE. That is where you TRULY BELIEVE you are better than the other dudes. Because (mind FVCK incoming) Is there any factor to CLEARLY tell who is better than who in a venue? It’s all PERCEIVED VALUE. It’s all WHOEVER TAKES UP MOST ENERGY (and he does that by having that SELF IMAGE) Look. When you see yourself as a certain type, you will look for confirming evidence that suggests you are that type. YOUR SELF IMAGE IS LITERALLY WHO YOU ARE. If you start repeating this thought in your head “I’m the fucking man here.” Don’t you think you will behave BETTER than if you thought, “Those guys are better than me?" Food for THOUGHT.

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#AskChad: “What do you do when a woman puts you on a pedestal like you’re too good to be true? Do you let her continue to do so, or, Do you attempt to manage expectations so that she doesn’t expect too much or overreact when you make even the slightest mistake or what have you". An excellent question! See while deep passion is the lifeblood of a long term relationship, absolute infatuation could be a potential ticking time bomb. If your girl views you as a flawless god who is "too good to be true," Eventually, her subconscious will immediately go on a search-and-destroy mission to find the cracks in your armor. Her female brain can't fathom being quite about that. She won't stop until she finds a weakness, & that relentless hunt will make your daily life a living hell. The one elite move is to control the narrative by strategically releasing harmless, mini silly flaws. Like, forget what day of the week it is, laughingly misspell a basic word, or "accidentally" walk out with your shirt on backward 🤣, you understand me? These calculated, minor slip-ups say, humanize your presence just enough to satisfy her curiosity, While keeping your high-value authority completely untouchable. One way to control the pedestal. These minor adjustments to your vibe make a HUGE difference brothers.

Q/ How to attract women who fulfill their gender role? Fulfil your gender role as a man, first. Every man wants a feminine, submissive, traditional woman who will be a stay-at-home mom who cooks for them and make their house a HOME. But FEW of these men are WILLING to fulfil their own part of gender responsibilities first. Chad, what do mean by that? To become the hunter who can gather enough for the family... = To be able to provide enough so she doesn’t have to worry about resources & work for some random man & even think of cheating for that. To be the protector when times are tough... = To have social resources, connection, basically knowing important people who can pull strings in times of emergency. And to be the ravisher who makes her sexually satisfied... = To fuck her so good that she goes above and beyond to keep you in her life. Be that man, and I GUARANTEE YOU, She will be the WOMAN you want.

It’ll take being in this scenario 100 times to even start figuring out good responses, the first couple dozen times just shock you because you're surprised anyone would even act like this cuz it's not in your nature to try and hurt people like this, Most people are monkey brained morons so they're going to default to the guy with bigger toys/money/status since, That’s the game THEY play so they've already pre-decided the winner by those metrics,it takes a lot of work but you have to deprogram yourself from these metrics.

"That's awesome. happy for you man" with a shrug and smile, or... "What a weird thing to say" and look at him like he's a weirdo. If someone is coming at you from this frame, they're going to interpret ANYTHING but a one—up as you "losing," so instead of worrying how you sound, you focus on what's TRUE… Are you poor? And are you upset about it? You have to believe response 1 or 2 for it to work, because it's about how you feel. #2 clowns him, which is fun but its suboptimal. #1 is the highest tier response but borderline impossible for most people. #2 esque responses are usually the way to go for most people, it basically communicates… "you're competing with me and I didn't even know there's a race going on, you're beneath me for even caring about beating me." But you gotta exit the conversation cuz you need to genuinely believe & communicate this dude's a faggot,

Practice being happy for others and your charisma will take a quantum leap. When you see others doing well, internalize it and imagine their happiness being your happiness. Do whatever you have to mentally until it happens. Once it does, verbalize it. Congratulate them. Tell them literally you're happy for them and MEAN it. You'll be astounded what it can do to your dating life and social life.

I'm begging you, ignore the posts on social media complaining about the state of women... These men are cancerous idiots who know nothing about dating and I guarantee I've been through worse experiences than them in life + with women and am still the most resolutely positive man you'll ever meet. If these men are meeting nothing but sluts or bad women, they are toxic themselves. This is an iron rule and I've NEVER seen it contradicted. Men attract exactly what they deserve always and forever. No relationship is perfect and things take work, but by god are these guys feeding you absolute worthlessness & just are projecting their own anger and insecurities onto the canvas of social media because they're weak and pathetic. There are amazing WOMEN out there. There are women who are smokeshows. There are women who are BOTH. These guys are almost always dating either... 1. Good girl who isn't super hot 2. Hot girl who isn't good 3. Girl who is neither 4. A girl who they're NOT COMPATIBLE WITH, even if many boxes check, And rarely... 5. She and he are fine, but he can't LEAD the relationship. And they deserve exactly what they get, always. If you want a girl who is HOT and AMAZING in so many different ways, then you BETTER be WORTHY of her TOO, (and NO ONE is perfect... there ARE going to be problems and if you're a good, strong couple you WORK THROUGH THEM TOGETHER) 🤷‍♂️

Every Powerful Man, Was Down on the Streets at One Point. Men are Born Power Hungry, but we all meet that “ONE GIRL” who makes us think... “Man, you know what? I don’t need power. I’ll just settle down with her and live a good life” UNTIL SHE BREAKS YOUR HEART AND MAKES YOU REALIZE THE TRUTH. You NEED Power, Even if you don’t plan on abusing it. ESPECIALLY if you don’t plan on abusing it. You should be a warrior in a garden rather than a gardener on a battlefield. Learn GAME.

WHO TOLD YOU ANGER IS A BAD EMOTION? Young Men Should Feel Angry. You should feel FRUSTRATED. Sleepless nights are the BEST THING that can happen to you. How else are you going to be motivated to put in the BLOOD SWEAT AND TEARS to become Great? You’re not working today to enjoy the fruits tomorrow. You’re working today to enjoy the fruits next year. Because as a man, If you do it right? Life gets better and better every year you grow older.

Start being totally proactive in everything you do. Be the one to smile first at that stranger on the street. Be the one to introduce yourself and compliment the other person at the gym Be the first to bring up a story in the conversation. Be first not because you need it, But because you know that the other person CRAVES FOR IT. Understand... Everyone in this world seeks human connection. Everyone loves to talk and interact, but most are simply too self conscious about themselves. Be the charming leader, and people will follow & OBEY.

Start being totally proactive in everything you do. Be the one to smile first at that stranger on the street. Be the one to introduce yourself and compliment the other person at the gym Be the first to bring up a story in the conversation. Be first not because you need it, But because you know that the other person CRAVES FOR IT. Understand... Everyone in this world seeks human connection. Everyone loves to talk and interact, but most are simply too self conscious about themselves. Be the charming leader, and people will follow & OBEY.