Black Feelings

There’s something deeply comforting about being understood without having to explain every piece of yourself. To be seen, heard, and accepted as you are—that kind of connection is rare, and beautiful. ☕ Here's to the people who make us feel understood.

Yesss!!! @onlyblacklovers

The ego loves its problems, and will create more endlessly to sustain and propagate its own existence. Do not fooled by this. Release it. #sub

LMAOOO YES 💀 The moment you realize you’re more invested in their healing than they are… baby, that’s your cue to exit stage left. Some people love their chaos. Not my circus anymore. #sub

You cannot force someone to change. They have to be willing to on their own terms.

Yep. They were addicted to the drama and the chaos. When none existed they actively created problems because the peace was uncomfortable. #sub

Yes, and that really sucks when it happenes. Taught me to build levels of boundaries. #sub

Some people don’t want help, they want an audience for their problems. You offer solutions, they keep the drama. At some point you realize you weren’t needed, just temporarily entertained in their loop. #sub

Their problems give them something to talk about, an excuse for why they're not succeeding, and a reason for people to feel sorry for them. It has become their identity. A reminder to save your energy for people who actually want to change. #sub

Have you ever try to help someone and realize they like their problems? Send answer

I’m not the best i know, but it’s just that i can’t smile when i’m sad, i can’t fake my love when i can’t feel it, i can’t interact when i can’t feel the vibes, i can’t stay somewhere i’m not loved enough, i can’t show you what i’m not feeling. I’m not perfect and sometimes my attitude may disappoint, but at least i’m still real enough. @truefeelings4life ‼️

Don't forget the compass was invented before the time because direction is more important than time.