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بشه‌ی منه

این بارونی‌ای که رئیس‌جمهور تو این فصل می‌پوشه رو درک نکردم هی. شاید تقابل با کت و شلوار گرمِ رقیب و آن‌گُوینگ رُقبا پوشیده میشه. به هر حال... این آقایان خیلی خودشونو اذیت می‌کنن تو این دمای چل درجه. تی‌شرت یا پیرهن چشونه؟ خیلی هم لباس‌های جدی‌ای‌ان.

ریه‌هام ازم بابت سیگار نکشیدن تشکر‌ می‌کنن.

Reminder: You don't have to forget your Ex. You don't even need to. You just have to be regulated emotionally, and moved on well. That's totally OK if you remind of them sometimes.

نشسته بودیم و به ددلاین‌ها نگاه می‌کردیم. زودتر از چیزی که فکرش رو می‌کردم ماجرا شروع میشه و زمان کمی دارم اینجا:) هیجان به خصوصی در من ایحاد می‌کرد این و احساسِ ناخجالتی‌‌بودنِ خاصی داشتم. تیر ۱۴۰۳

اگه خودت انتخاب نکنی که به چی اهمیت بدی، برات انتخاب میشه‌. اگه خودت با حواسِ جمع، وقتت رو به چیزی اختصاص ندی، وقتت گرفته میشه.

واقعاً باید یاد بگیریم واسه چی تره خورد کنیم و واسه چی نه. خیلی چیزها رو به چپمون باید بگیریم. این لازمه‌ی بزرگ شدنه.

I believe that today we’re facing a psychological epidemic, one in which people no longer realize it’s okay for things to suck sometimes. I know that sounds intellectually lazy on the surface, but I promise you, it’s a life/death sort of issue. Because when we believe that it’s not okay for things to suck sometimes, then we unconsciously start blaming ourselves. We start to feel as though something is inherently wrong with us, which drives us to all sorts of overcompensation, like buying forty pairs of shoes or downing Xanax with a vodka chaser on a Tuesday night or shooting up a school bus full of kids. This belief that it’s not okay to be inadequate sometimes is the source of the growing Feedback Loop from Hell that is coming to dominate our culture. The idea of not giving a fuck is a simple way of reorienting our expectations for life and choosing what is important and what is not. Developing this ability leads to something I like to think of as a kind of “practical enlightenment.” The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck -Mark Manson

The deal is I cannot tolerate nagging, whining, or complaining about anything. So what? We know, so many things suck. Sometimes or maybe all the time, life doesn’t go the way we want or expect. Again, so what? Do we have another option? Can we just give up on everything, and I don’t know, die? Can we? NO! Life doesn’t work this way. Giving up is for losers, and for a fact, we are NOT one.

مرسی عزیزم. تولدتم مبارک باشه!🎈🍰✨